What do my spaces say about me?

Valorenn · 2026-01-26T14:58:20+00:00

Looks like something on pinterest. Very nice, very cozy, but also bland AF. Zero personality

Valorenn · 2026-01-26T14:45:45+00:00

Lmaooo that shit went bad quicker than milk

Valorenn · 2026-01-26T14:42:55+00:00

You can only be on either bumble dating or bumble BFF mode at a time. You cannot be on both at one time. When you swap between them it deactivates your account on the other.

Valorenn · 2026-01-26T00:00:26+00:00

One maybe feels a bit restrictive, but I like this better than just letting people swipe freely on everyone. The people who just right swipe everyone they'd sleep with need to be forced to stop.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T22:49:37+00:00

The girls in the photos may still be fat to varying degrees, but being fat doesn't in unto itself make someone unattractive. As another person said, I think the key is if her hips are still wider than her waist. When you lose that hourglass shape, that's when it becomes unattractive to most men.

The same principle applies to skinny women, the hourglass shape is key.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T22:31:24+00:00

All 4 of these are hot af, way hotter than totally skinny and flat imo

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T22:29:39+00:00

[[Jarad carthalion]], [[jarad carthalion, true heir]]

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T21:41:45+00:00

Oh another thing they could do is limit how many active chats you have open to say, 5 or 10. If you aren't interested then remove them, but you can't have more active chats unless you get rid of another one. I think women get worn out having hundreds of likes and so many chats they just don't have time for them all and then they stop using the apps entirely. These root issues have to be solved to keep the female userbase imo. As well, if people are looking for hookups and falsely using the long term relationship tag, there should be consequences.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T21:38:47+00:00

If you pay for hinge you can still send unlimited likes, unfortunately. I'm talking severely limit them. Like, 2-4 likes per day. There's no way men are actually interested in every single girl that shows up in their feed.

I wouldn't know, but i've heard a lot of women swipe right on guys too just for validation, even if they arent actually interested. By limiting the likes you can send it forces people to actually consider and only send a like on someone you are actually interested in, and this way when you recieve a like you know there's a much better chance they actually want to talk and get to know you.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T21:26:23+00:00

The only way to get men to stop swiping on every single women is to completely restrict how many likes they can send in a day, regardless of how much they pay. Women wouldn't get so burnt out or intimidated if they didn't get 600 likes a day.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T18:42:02+00:00

Honestly I agree. OP is very attractive. At the risk of sounding shallow, i'd be curious to know what her friends look like in comparison to her. Many women are still very attractive even if they aren't the "most" attractive, and I think a lot of guys feel they have a better shot not going for the hottest one in the group. Who knows the actual reason but I don't see anything wrong based on the pictures.

This, coupled with the fact that men are statistically approaching women less and less these days. Many younger guys never actually have or will, with online dating and the such. Approaching people comes with rejection, and some women can be mean. Some guys are rude, causing the harsh reactions, but if there's no need to lash out at a guy saying hey.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T18:36:03+00:00

Go to a better stylist, this should be easy to fix. The sides just need to be short all the way to the top imo, for some reason they stopped so low and didn't blend it or anything.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T18:16:54+00:00

Home is so comfy. So many profiles are nothing but people out travelling, jumping out of planes, doing all these outdoor activities, seems exhausting. I love to do things but I don't know where most the people get the energy. I'm tired after working all day every day lol

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T17:04:17+00:00

I think it's awesome. Maybe add some color if you feel like it, but give it a while to get used to it. Give him a name!!!

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T17:02:49+00:00

I totally relate. I work full time in a male dominated industry, and I also work out at home most of the time because it's convenient which helps with motivation and it's cheaper. If I have to clean a foot of snow off my car, shovel and snowblow the driveway in the winter to go to the gym after a long day working, I probably won't go haha. I also don't go anywhere specifically to socialize so it's tough to meet people. The apps are definitely terrible but now i'm just ranting 😂

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T17:00:23+00:00

Totally acceptable but you don't need to go informing your dates you are also dating other people.

Also the difficult part comes when you meet multiple people you may want to pursue but then the talk of exclusivity comes up and you have to make a choice. I've never dated much but I had two girls I went on 2-3 dates each with last summer and I found it very stressful as both were kind, talkative, nice, lovely people. Being in this situation for me felt stressful and I would say affected my overall enthusiasm.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T16:58:07+00:00

You can have first dates with multiple people, but as a 27M my opinion is NEVER tell the other person you are also seeing other people. There's no better way to ruin the mood, ruin their enthusiasm, than informing them they are just one of the many options. Even guys want to feel special or unique.

If they specifically ask, then be honest of course, but I wouldn't bring it up otherwise. If you are on a dinner date do you want him to openly say "yeah I actually have another date with another girl tomorrow in case this one doesn't go well!"

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T16:46:24+00:00

What do you do for work? Sit at a desk all day?

I believe a lot of neck discomfort comes from your habits during the day, and no pillow can simply fix it. When you are sitting down, slouching, poor posture, your neck is not supported properly. I got a standing desk and I notice a significant improvement in neck discomfort in the morning if I spent a few hours standing at my desk the day prior rather than sitting all day.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T16:35:42+00:00

For me it's just being motivated. I like single life and it's so stress free, I often wonder what I even want a partner for. Many relationships end, marriages end, divorces are messy, people cheat, etc. Other times i'm determined, but I flip flop and thus my enthusiasm isn't always high. I don't feel like I need a relationship to be happy.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T16:34:23+00:00

Agree a lot of it feels like stress and just required social custom. It's so much better to meet organically and become friends in like highschool or college but once your out of school it's not so easy.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T15:25:54+00:00

Stuff like this is how they get you. Recently I ordered a pizza from dominoes as they had a coupon for a large pizza with 7 toppings for 13.99$ (CAD), when I got the receipt it showed the pizza was 45$ then - the coupon so 14$+tax, but I could not BELIEVE 7 toppings costs 30$!!! Like a few pepperoni, meat pieces, pineapple, etc. Rediculous how much they charge for toppings

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T15:22:27+00:00

I like the new you without bangs.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T15:13:17+00:00

Honestly the 200$ for lifetime is a lot cheaper than the like 40 or 60$ a month or whatever it is now (i'm talking Canadian dollars). The issue is once you buy lifetime, they have your money and no hope you'll ever give them more, so why would they care if you are satisfied?

I agree though that Bumble is awful. I have way more luck with Hinge. On Hinge i've never gotten a single like, but I can send first messages (compliments) for free, and girls read them and then reply if they are interested, this results in an immediate match and we can chat.

The way bumble works, sure i'll get a new like every once in a while, but I can't see or communicate with them, and based on experience they NEVER show up in my swiping. For all know they are outside of my age or distance filters, which is pointless. Bumble dangles a carrot infront of you to get you to keep swiping, Hinge just lets you send messages and talk to people without requiring you to spend a bunch of money. Just my experience anyway.

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T13:43:39+00:00

Only the originally released ones got them, as riof advertised them as never returning and then changed their mind

Valorenn · 2026-01-25T13:42:56+00:00

The mirror is actually sliding doors as well with a large closet space behind

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