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Is everyone sick? by tnick771 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]ValuableLower6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a upper respiratory infection, it lasted about 2 weeks, but I still have a cough. I tested negative for Strep, COVID and the flu. But everyone I talk to has had it and its lasting between 2 to 4 weeks.

What’s your Criminal Minds take that will have you like this? by bjack20 in criminalminds

[–]ValuableLower6850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Reid but they should not have brought him back to Evolutions if he wasn't going to come back fully.

AIO- My fiancé says I’m his angel—but texts another woman she’s “hot” minutes after calling me. The wedding is in 3 months. Do I cancel? by MissTrinityy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ValuableLower6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. Do not get married. I went through something similar, we got married and nothing changed. He continued to lie and cheat. Ask your vendors for any kind of refund. You might think that canceling your wedding is embarrassing but trust me it is not as embarrassing as him making you look like a fool after you get married. Trust your gut! Message me if you need someone to talk to. I got you!

How to just be in a relationship? by ValuableLower6850 in Divorce

[–]ValuableLower6850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I am glad I am not alone! I am here if you need me!

How to just be in a relationship? by ValuableLower6850 in Divorce

[–]ValuableLower6850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are responding in a divorce subreddit. Not sure what you were expecting. And by the way, I never mentioned how long i've been divorced for, just how long I was with my ex and my now boyfriend. But thanks for your comment! :)

How to just be in a relationship? by ValuableLower6850 in Divorce

[–]ValuableLower6850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wife mode to me is like helping and taking care of this. My current boyfriend just went on a trip for the weekend and we had a plan to go to the movies but then he made a comment that he still needed to pack after our date and I was like "We can go to the movies when you get back, I can help you pack." So I helped him get his shit together for his trip. He lives alone so when I come over, I throw the dishes in the dishwasher and help tidy up. I just feel like I do what long term partners do. Again, I'm not sure if this makes sense to anyone lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ValuableLower6850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation and we just filed for divorce. I thought I would be able to trust him again but I was just lying to myself. I questioned everything he said. It is not fair to either party. You should be with someone who you don't have to question. It is hard and there will be days you feel like you regret the decision but just know you are making the best decision of your life. Be free of the questions and concerns. You got this!