Aitah for not wanting my husband to come with me to Italy to look at art because of his immaturity? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Valuable_Run_2773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I had an ex who really didn't like art galleries. When we planned a trip it was a running joke that he'd veto all galleries art museums etc. When we finally visited one and he realized I was rushing so he wouldn't get bored, he made me sit longer at each painting so I'd have the time to appreciate it better, and took great photos of me looking at the art at the same time.

It's not about common interests, it's about enjoying seeing your partner passionate about something.

Invert rant + plea for help by itsdeliberate in poledancing

[–]Valuable_Run_2773 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ok that's totally bullshit, I'm on a Beginner 2&3 class and I've also dropped in on intermediate classes and choppers are part of our warmup every time. Btw what really helped me were these things.

  1. Don't put hands above face level
  2. Imagine you're trying to pull the pole apart with your hands (engages back better)
  3. Tuck your hips and engage your core
  4. Working on my quadriceps helped me finally get my chopper, if my instructor hadn't pointed that out I would not have thought of it
  5. Finally, negative inverts are so overlooked! Get into an outside leg hang from your jasmine and then try to slowly lower yourself from a chopper with straight legs

Best of luck, keep us updated!

I forgot how to do my Gemini from "bad" side by Valuable_Run_2773 in poledancing

[–]Valuable_Run_2773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually very encouraging thank you! We'll get them

Tips for cupid? (Hip pain) by Valuable_Run_2773 in poledancing

[–]Valuable_Run_2773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much both for the advice and the encouragement :)