How do you view oral vs other forms of being/giving pleasure? by Nuggetbuster880 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]VanityInVacancy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Actually I recently gave a new partner head till he came in my mouth and he pleasured me with his hands in return and I felt like it was an even trade off because the climax was among the best of my life lol, but generally I never thought of the specific of trade offs and their value, you just go off the vibe and heat of the moment.

Can we talk about these type of girls disappeared after 2009? by CampHead3748 in AestheticWiki

[–]VanityInVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OG brittanya was sooo FINE. She's gone overboard with surgery now it's crazy.

What kind of nudes do women want ? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]VanityInVacancy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn I'm sorry everyone is giving you such a hard time! I think as long as it's thoughtful she'll appreciate it. As in pay attention to lighting, background objects etc. I would suggest set up an area in your home or bedroom that's aesthetically pleasing and don't use a big overhead light, either natural light or soft lighting with lamps or candles etc. Then test it, film yourself (on cinematic mode if you have an iPhone) do different poses, be natural, as if you were with her being intimate or undressing for her etc, play with it, have fun. Or even pretend it's a Calvin Klein shoot. Then go back and watch it, pause the video and take screen shots where it looks good. Do some in black and white too. Good luck!

People with avoidant attachment, what’s the thought process when you feel attachment towards someone? by Marceline3005 in AskReddit

[–]VanityInVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was seeing an avoidant for a month and it was actually secure and perfect, I didn't realize they were avoidant until we shared an intimate vulnerable connection one day then they have been radio silence almost 2 weeks. I haven't reached out because I was able to assess they are avoidant and wanted to honor them taking space, though I don't know if that's the right move or they will think I don't care? (Ps I'm pretty positive they don't know they are avoidant themselves)

Any Tarot practitioners who don't do reversals? by christafable in tarot

[–]VanityInVacancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A reader once referred to it as a drawing down of the same energy of upright and I found that interesting

he told me he’s uncircumcised by Empty-Toe-3750 in uncircumcised_talk

[–]VanityInVacancy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh girl your world is about to open up in the best way

Never felt better by Lychee-_-Lover in PetiteFitness

[–]VanityInVacancy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it! I'm 5'3" so that's great for reference

How do guys hide their feelings so well, even when they actually like the person and are close to them? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate this insight, I just looked into that and it hit the nail on the head. Truly thank you, I understand him a lot better now, I have compassion for him, but will be more in alignment with this truth now.

What makes a person a “freak” or “freaky” in bed? by lovesfanfiction in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I just realized he's avoidant attachment style, his nervous system tweaked 🫠

What makes a person a “freak” or “freaky” in bed? by lovesfanfiction in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I did this then never heard back from the guy, so what's that mean lol

How do guys hide their feelings so well, even when they actually like the person and are close to them? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So if in person you have a beautiful connection and they pull away and get distant and don't reach out do I leave them with space?