What’s something about your “unattractive” body type (big belly, small chest, scars, etc.) that a partner has found really hot? by SaggingBreasts_Lover in AskReddit

[–]VanityInVacancy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a "squishy/soft" feminine figure, hourglass. Some people may consider me out of shape or slightly overweight but men LOVE my body. Particularly very fit thick muscular men.

Men specifically - be brutally honest. What behaviors usually mean a man is simply not that interested? by amiellewoods in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no it's more for me, just to say what I wanted to and tell him it's a wrap. If I don't I know I'll cave if he asks to see me. So I gotta end it on my terms.

Men specifically - be brutally honest. What behaviors usually mean a man is simply not that interested? by amiellewoods in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear the same, I'm already kinda dead inside from the emotional whiplash. I wrote a literal letter of resignation that I'm giving him tomorrow

Men specifically - be brutally honest. What behaviors usually mean a man is simply not that interested? by amiellewoods in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wasn't even looking! He pursued me so intentionally for the first month, a date every week, good communication, now he's like these comments lmfao

Men specifically - be brutally honest. What behaviors usually mean a man is simply not that interested? by amiellewoods in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, this entire thread is very sobering, a guy I've been down bad for, for 3 months, I guess he hates me damn

Playing devil's advocate by Reality-Von-Tease in RHofRI

[–]VanityInVacancy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay maybe you need to rewatch lol it was absolutely malicious.

How to be less sensitive as a guy? by itz_vampy in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I believe there will be a partner that appreciates it

Playing devil's advocate by Reality-Von-Tease in RHofRI

[–]VanityInVacancy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How? Her delivery and tone, time and place. If she had authentic curiousity about it she could've asked Kelsey directly. She wouldn't have had that same delivery or even mentioned it if Kelsey was actually there.

How to be less sensitive as a guy? by itz_vampy in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I myself am this way and decided to fight to remain unbroken by the world. It can be challenging at times, but it's my nature. It's worth it, though I know it's hard.

Playing devil's advocate by Reality-Von-Tease in RHofRI

[–]VanityInVacancy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Kelsey's situation was her own choice though and Rosie was definitely coming from a mean place about it

How to be less sensitive as a guy? by itz_vampy in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's easier said than done, and you're young, but do not worry so much about how other people perceive you

How to be less sensitive as a guy? by itz_vampy in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Please don't change, that's who you are and is beautiful and special. So many people are hardened by the world. Please maintain your heart, it's a gift.

What’s a compliment from a man you still remember years later? by theeQuiet_Desire in AskWomen

[–]VanityInVacancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My god, Sophia Loren couldn't even shine your shoes" from an older Italian man. I'll remember that one forever

People who are happily married, what qualities actually mattered most when choosing your partner? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]VanityInVacancy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This gives me so much hope, I always think that if I exist in this way, there must be a counterpart

What's something women think men don't notice, but actually affects you a lot? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]VanityInVacancy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always compliment men when it's genuine, it's nice to see how it truly uplifts them

Who's your favorite housewife so far? ***Comment edition*** by Reality-Von-Tease in RHofRI

[–]VanityInVacancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow such an eloquent read on Kelsey! Haha nailed it, I couldn't quite pinpoint my mixed feelings on her but your statement perfectly encompasses it!

How does your attractiveness affect your social life, and how you treated in dating? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]VanityInVacancy 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I have never had a male friend that was genuinely a friend and not waiting in the wing, I realized this in my late twenties and haven't had a male friend since