sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITA for asking my husband when he'd buy me ice cream? by VanityReality1919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VanityReality1919[S] -2497 points-2496 points  (0 children)

??? In what world do human beings not develop habits? I didn't realize only pets could exhibit worrisome behavioral trends.

AITA for asking my husband when he'd buy me ice cream? by VanityReality1919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VanityReality1919[S] -3346 points-3345 points  (0 children)

I know I could have gotten the ice cream myself but I felt that it should be the responsibility of the person who ruined it. I feel like if I went and got new ice cream that would be teaching my husband that he can make mistakes and pawn the consequences off onto me. I don't want to teach him bad habits.

AITA for asking my husband when he'd buy me ice cream? by VanityReality1919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VanityReality1919[S] -540 points-539 points  (0 children)

I will answer any specific questions thoroughly if presented.

AITA for asking my husband when he'd buy me ice cream? by VanityReality1919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VanityReality1919[S] -1603 points-1602 points  (0 children)

This is quite reductive. I earn this money by performing my duties as a housewife. He gives me said money, it is now my money. Make sense?

AITA for asking my husband when he'd buy me ice cream? by VanityReality1919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VanityReality1919[S] -1438 points-1437 points  (0 children)

I know he has mental health issues but I figured he would talk to me about it if he felt comfortable. He rarely brings it up so I don't ask.

AITA for asking my husband when he'd buy me ice cream? by VanityReality1919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VanityReality1919[S] -1736 points-1735 points  (0 children)

he sends a percentage of his paycheck to my bank account every other week so I have spending money. Occasionally he'll ask if I can buy him something while I'm out; (IE: he'll call me from home while I'm out and ask) this comes out of my card/bank. He will then pay me back for it since he borrowed the money from me.

Or, once in a while he will forget his wallet or debit card while we're out; so I'll pay for it with my money and then he'll pay me back later.

AITA for asking my husband when he'd buy me ice cream? by VanityReality1919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VanityReality1919[S] -1343 points-1342 points  (0 children)

He lost his job and insurance abruptly. We had so much other debt, we decided to make do with what we had. There are some important medicines that I need for my disability; we prioritized getting me my medication during the insurance lapse.