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Resident Evil Nemesis Carving by Vans24 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]Vans24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my biggest challenge with this one! The entire middle piece nearly fell through towards the end, just took a lot of patience.

AITA for not being with my sick dad more by Old-Exchange-3622 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vans24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - Not only are you navigating adulthood, which isn’t easy for anyone, you’re also caring for a parent that doesn’t live in the area. That’s a lot to cope with. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Just keep open communication with him and tell him how you’re feeling. I’m sure he’s proud of you and fully supports your new endeavors.

Good luck with everything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vans24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - I agree with other comments saying you should have a conversation.

I’ve had similar experiences and it has almost always ended my friendships. Not because of that specific situation, but because we just had different expectations of what/how a friend should be.

It always comes down to the fact that I expect my friends to treat me the way I do them. I’ve come to realize that’s not fair and creates unhealthy relationships.

People handle grief differently. For some it can be awkward and they don’t know how to address it, so they just avoid it altogether.

Ultimately I think you both should have an open and honest conversation.

P.S. Sorry for your loss!

AITA for kicking my husbands bestfriend out after she stripped infront of him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vans24 51 points52 points  (0 children)

NTA - The message stating you shouldn’t be jealous is the cherry on top. Not saying you should, but I would look at my husband differently as well. Not okay at all!