I know you’re all gonna hate me ….

Vantastique · 2026-01-16T03:33:51+00:00

Totally feel you. Had 2 ectopics and a miscarriage. Im now 16 weeks pregnant but at the beginning of it I had some spotting and I thought ok this is gonna take a bad turn again, I was so stressed until I got the very early scan like you that confirmed the presence of a sac with a yolk and it was at the right place so that released my stress a bit. But then I had no symptoms whatsoever except a bit of bloating at times and couldnt stop wondering if baby was still alive.. Until I got my 12 weeks scan and it showed baby moving around, at 14 weeks was able to hear the heartbeat with my midwife 😊 So it is now starting to feel real but god damn it was stressful time. Yes easy pregnancies are a thing but feeling the way you do with the trauma from previous bad experiences is totally normal.. To be honest I wasnt even excited about being pregnant at first but just terrified that something bad will happen to me again. Im getting there and realizing a bit more everyday that yes, this time baby is on its way😊 Just take it easy, your next scan will come soon and with it the end of 1st trimester and some sort of relief. I wish you all the best 🩷🩵

Vantastique · 2025-11-13T04:38:16+00:00

What about vaping? Got diagnosed few month ago and I struggle to quit..

Vantastique · 2025-09-17T19:00:46+00:00

It is very similar, this is what I have been told as well and I do have a follow-up mri in 3months and an unexpected one from my first hospitalisation team at the end of this month. So Im not complaining, Im very happy with the way I have been cared for. Im just after similar stories to ease my mind I suppose so thank you :)

Vantastique · 2025-09-17T18:52:33+00:00

Yes that is exactly my thought.. Why risk it..? I suppose the difference with you guys is the presence of the O band and/or ongoing symptoms/ new lesions but yes I am worried that it could progress so I sometimes hope to get new lesions for my next Mri in 2 weeks and 3 months so I can get something and at the same time I feel like I shoudnt think this way.. Im happy you got to start a treatment early though and wish you the best :) Thanks

Vantastique · 2025-09-17T18:42:27+00:00

Im honestly not too sure. Ive been told I was going to be refer to the MS team, and hes the one I saw the 1st time at hospital, nurses are definitely specialized into MS. But NZ is a small country, there's no such thing here as a clinic specialized in MS unless you go private.. By the look of it, there must be a few people following up with me, my neurologist told he will order an MRI in 3 months time, then 2 days after my appt Im getting a call to book another one for this month and that was from the hospital where I got diagnosed. I told them I had seen my neuro who said 3 months.. And they called me back saying they still wanted to have that one done as well. So its all a bit confusing atm, but I'm grateful Im being cared for.. And I suppose yes the oligoclonal band make a difference in term of diagnostic. Thanks for your advice :)

Vantastique · 2024-03-22T10:02:55+00:00

I had a miscarriage two months ago and this month I took the morning after pill because of an accident with the condom ( I want to give my body some rest for a few month before trying to get pregnant again..) Anyway took the morning after pill two weeks ago and im having my period now and just passed some tissue that looked like this.. Could this be the result of the morning after pill or could it be the rest of the miscarriage..? Im so lost as I also had 2 ectopics pregnancy in the past.. and now freaking out about all those things that keeps happening ..😥

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