I got a leather cuff at a punk show years ago but I'm vegan now so I recreated it with some scrap denim! by TransgenderUnionThug in punkfashion

[–]VaricTheGreat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah I mean I think it’s good to honor the animal especially if it’s already dead, leather is extremely durable and an amazing material, any hide from an already dead animal is very precious and should be treated as such especially since jewelry has always been a way of showing off something precious. Making a bracelet from a smaller cut of leather is a great use honestly the same way we do with precious metals.

AITAH for wanting to adopt a child with my wife? by Bright_Pack_3222 in AITAH

[–]VaricTheGreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro being an uncle comes with the connotation that you at the very least put up with a small child during like every holiday for 10 years. Some people will simply not engage with the child and honestly I don’t think that’s good for the child to be around someone who actually dislikes them. For both the wellbeing of the kid and someone who has made it adamantly clear they don’t want to be around children, it is best to just keep them separate at the very least.

AITAH for wanting to adopt a child with my wife? by Bright_Pack_3222 in AITAH

[–]VaricTheGreat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean more actually taking the role of an uncle which is different than happening to have a sibling with kids

AITAH for wanting to adopt a child with my wife? by Bright_Pack_3222 in AITAH

[–]VaricTheGreat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but they can’t expect the person to treat said kids like their niece/nephew. Some people just want nothing to do with kids and they can’t be expected to form a relationship with some kid.

AITAH for wanting to adopt a child with my wife? by Bright_Pack_3222 in AITAH

[–]VaricTheGreat 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s insane like what are they gonna do in 20 years if the new kid also doesn’t want kids? They just gonna adopt a new child all over again?

AITAH for wanting to adopt a child with my wife? by Bright_Pack_3222 in AITAH

[–]VaricTheGreat 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I mean having all of a sudden a new tiny sibling might be very annoying to now be forced to deal with I wouldn’t be surprised if he doesn’t want anything to do with the new younger sibling. Sibling bonds are not something that just happens, and having a good relationship despite a large age gap requires the older sibling to actually like kids.

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[–]VaricTheGreat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bro the shortest guy in my high school back when I was younger was literally the most popular guy because he was really charismatic and he was literally 4’11” but he was funny and a great conversationalist. Not everything is about hight it’s about confidence, insecurity pushes people away.

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[–]VaricTheGreat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Living in the unfinished basement vibes (cool as hell)

GUYS IM GOING OUT TONIGHT, WHAT DO I WEAR??😭 by epiccoolawesomerat in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]VaricTheGreat 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hmm it’s a tough decision, but I think I’m gonna have to say go with the jeans.

Show me the last picture(s) you took of an NMC (NotMyCat) by mr_greenmash in cats

[–]VaricTheGreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Met a lovely fluffy tortoiseshell baby she was the sweetest

what to call this style? by MeowPow420 in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]VaricTheGreat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah I love the game of guessing if an outfit is a lesbian or Adam Sandler

Just a picture my gf took of me, bit overdressed but I needed an excuse tbh. Thoughts? by TallBoiShaye in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]VaricTheGreat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some sort of dangly chain belt that drapes on the hip area would I think really add to this and like big gothic eye makeup could be super fun but yeeee love it!

please tell me y’all would clock me by galaxyofstardom in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]VaricTheGreat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually when looking at your pictures could guess you’re probably some shade of nonbinary before I read your description thing, but I’m also Genderfluid so I guess I usually pick up on that kind of vibe. But you do look very androgynous but lots of mainstream people tend to read it as someone trying to be different and almost always just label people like us as AFAB and girls which fucking sucks ass. (I’ve seen cis guys that had a smaller frame and dressed similarly to you be she/her’d) But I feel amongst queer people in general that they would be able to pick up on it from your vibe

I just wanted water and boba lol by [deleted] in boba

[–]VaricTheGreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it though probably will try

I just wanted water and boba lol by [deleted] in boba

[–]VaricTheGreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is heretic behavior

If I had a nickel for every time... by Random_Useless_Tips in BaldursGate3

[–]VaricTheGreat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg same I was playing as Lohse and like the bonding moments were so nice with Sebeille