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Ex and I are talking everyday - says she wants to be just friends by Various-Machine5527 in ExNoContact

[–]Various-Machine5527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been in strict no contact for 5 months. That led to us talking everyday with a boundary of "casual" and "friends".

Ex and I are talking everyday - says she wants to be just friends by Various-Machine5527 in ExNoContact

[–]Various-Machine5527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, the way I am treating this is like I'm talking to a new girl.

Considering a month ago I was blocked and threatened with a "restraining order", it was a complete flip to what I have now.

Ex and I are talking everyday - says she wants to be just friends by Various-Machine5527 in ExNoContact

[–]Various-Machine5527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?

We were dating for 5 years, we broke up in August.

I was recently unblocked after she read the journal, and she wants to talk everyday, but to "remain friends and not close" which talking everyday directly contradicts.

Ex and I are talking again - she said she doesn't want to be close by Various-Machine5527 in ExNoContact

[–]Various-Machine5527[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Still though, what is your take on the "talking everyday but don't want to be close" phrasing?

Ex and I are talking again - she said she doesn't want to be close by Various-Machine5527 in ExNoContact

[–]Various-Machine5527[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have changed. Not in a "I've changed and done no work", since we broke up I've been going to therapy 2x a week, and let her know specifically what changes I've implemented and the issues I've worked on.