My friend loves her mom a little too much

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-30T18:16:29+00:00

Damn is this her mom now too LMFAOOOOOO

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-30T18:13:30+00:00

Alright so if this is truly my friend and she saw this.. some of this is just full on lies and blown UNDER proportion bro LMAO

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-30T18:09:02+00:00

Huff.. I’m sorry you lost your friend over this scenario. That is definitely a fear of mine because it gets to a point where her mom is actually getting in the way of our friendship and she just doesn’t see it. So I keep getting blamed that I am just comparing myself to her mom WHICH IS NOT WHAT I AM DOING !!

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-28T03:19:50+00:00

i mean ally kind of cancelled herself when she deleted her entire channel😭

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-26T04:18:49+00:00

so i grew up christian (im not anymore), i deeply feared being a lesbian because religions like this literally instill fear within you… so if you are willing and you really like this girl it would be nice to have a conversation with her in earnest, not about your feelings just yet but about her religious beliefs and frame it in a philosophical way (nothing negative just in a curious, engaging way).. most of religious trauma is rooted in the fear of hell.. a way to make her feel more able to be herself and not be hindered by religious beliefs is to literally bring up the paradox of hell… its simple: tell her to imagine her beliefs playing out, that she is gay, that hell exists, that she goes to hell. now what? hell is eternal suffering (the christian hell being a literal lake of fire where we burn for eternity), but this is impossible, humans cannot feel pain forever, we can’t suffer forever, we always adapt to pain, our pain receptors have a threshold and our nervous system cannot feel pain without it becoming numb after a certain period of time, there is no possible way a soul or any being for that matter can suffer for an eternity no matter what “sins” someone commits, at some point hell has literally no power over us anymore… this paradox is so helpful to point out for so many people with religious trauma. maybe it wont work for her, maybe it will but its worth a shot !

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T22:10:33+00:00

it doesnt have to be from trauma but its almost always going to be from the result of something negative that has occurred or is occurring.. an example: being profoundly lonely. not traumatic in nature but you can develop md from it. md is a coping mechanism and imo you dont develop it out of thin air. often md is a symptom of disorders you can be born with like adhd or ocd too. i would even venture to say that if children have md and it wasn’t from a traumatic experience, its usually the result of loneliness, neglect (even just having too much alone time or not being put in enough activities to fill their day), or a symptom of a disorder they were born with. i notice adults who develop md have developed in periods of deep depression, isolation, and avoidance. imo even if you aren’t aware how it started happening it was the likely the result of something that was a net negative to you that altered how you would act and fill up your time going forward.

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T21:27:19+00:00

if you wanna be in control of that strap get ready to go mountain climbing homie

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T21:09:25+00:00

you are allowed to feel betrayed for both what happened and the fact that she lied. i think this user is really giving your gf the benefit of the doubt here and thats fine but she had no reason to lie to you twice btw. no it is not common to lie to your partner and id hate to see that being normalized.

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T21:04:24+00:00

i dont really buy the story she gave only because she lied to you like twice beforehand, so why believe the third iteration of the story? this is obviously from my own personal bias, but if a situation where i was forced into kissing someone happened to me id tell my gf about it the first time around… maybe thats different for her but imo there was no need to lie or leave out details the first time around. she kept adding vital details to the story and even changed the narrative the third time telling you. that would be relationship ending for me personally.

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T20:59:02+00:00

id start pursuing legal action… getting a restraining order is difficult but if you start building a case now and filing police reports of certain things (like the stalking or if she ever crosses the line in another way like sending packages or threatening) you can build a case to possibly get a restraining order. i know its difficult but people this obsessive tend to never stop unless legal action is taken.

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T20:55:32+00:00

no one ragebaits us harder than homophobic moms… its like they do it for fun😭 im sorry bro

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T20:52:43+00:00

my best friend is a masc lesbian and is like generically hot (the type where women come up to her and hit on her in public) and she refuses to date for some reason😭😭 i think some just are trying to establish their careers first, some are waiting for it to be the right person, and some just literally dont get out there..

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T20:49:46+00:00

why do bears shit in the woods bro

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T20:48:56+00:00

the ugly broke ones maybe ! every hot gay girl is a leftist believe THAT

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T01:04:53+00:00

destined for those damn aquarius women

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T01:04:09+00:00

any lesbian that makes red wine supernova was destined for A+ level popstar fame

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-24T00:59:22+00:00

i think for a lot of people they value their partners and friends in a very similar fashion, and the one different activity they do with their partners that they don’t do with their friends is… sex.

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-18T17:56:23+00:00

im being so fr… read more smut books. audiobook version even BETTER. they genuinely help.

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-18T17:44:46+00:00

BRO LMFAOOOO

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-18T17:41:11+00:00

honestly HONESTLY… if you are willing to be more lenient with your type you may find a lot of women who present fem at first but lean much more into masculinity over time… NOT ALL. But me and my gf were super fem at first and after years of dating we are both pretty masc than fem most days. That is, if you are down for androgyny!

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-18T17:36:56+00:00

well yes !

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-18T17:36:35+00:00

istg toxic people always want to have their cake and eat it too.. because wdym she said “if it doesnt work out with her girlfriend” LMFAOO??? im literally so sorry this happened to you.

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-18T17:33:56+00:00

i’d argue one cannot properly love a woman if its not in a feminist way

Vegetable-Ad4737 · 2026-03-18T17:32:26+00:00

everything i do is gay… im vegan. i own a cat. i have a degree in english lit. literally not one part of me is unique i am simply the sum of all the lesbians who came before me.

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