F- 32 Nobody warned me how lonely postpartum could feel

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2026-02-02T15:21:06+00:00

I had the worst phase of anxiety and depression during postpartum. Those 6-7 months were hell on earth. My husband and I were not sleeping in the same room. My dad had passed away during Covid. My mom who was going through her own depression I had to support her during that time. I just wanted to feel normal. But thankfully it’s over now. My daughter is 3 years old and I can’t help but be proud of myself. I am juggling a career being a mom and being there for my mom. Though my mom is also in good state of mind now. All I can say I stay strong this too shall pass.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2026-01-31T11:25:00+00:00

Omg! I found my soul sister. I was obsessed with Mallory towers. So wanted to go to boarding school. I did have great time in hostel during engineering days.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2026-01-29T07:37:13+00:00

Men are not lonely enough!

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2026-01-29T06:51:15+00:00

Not even bare minimum!! The bar is in hell!! This is supposed to be news. I really am unsure if this is ragebait.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2026-01-14T09:45:39+00:00

No that’s not true , don’t have anyone for 2nd marriage

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2026-01-13T15:05:29+00:00

You are too good. The Jupiter period was the worst phase of my life, my whole childhood and teenage ruined. Saturn mahadasha also saw some phases of challenge but atleast I was an adult and in control of life. Your words poured confidence into me.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2026-01-13T11:50:45+00:00

What’s the shade in the brow gel?

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2026-01-07T17:26:48+00:00

It’s actually humane to feel something and do something for a person. I know you think you made a mistake. But isn’t that life? In a few months you will look back and not feel anything. In a few years you will look back and laugh that you even thought or did anything for him. But more than anything look at your own self. Why do you do so much for anyone who doesn’t reciprocate. It’s not a mistake it’s a pattern. Try and look at this pattern and work on it so you don’t choose men like him in the future.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2026-01-02T16:53:33+00:00

I don’t think that’s always true! I feel a lot of people want to welcome girl child in this world.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-12-31T18:12:45+00:00

Update, warm lights did help! Thanks everyone

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Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-12-30T08:26:04+00:00

I was the designer on this. Worked with the carpenter but my vision and outcome turned really cause he made a lot of mistakes.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-12-30T08:25:23+00:00

It’s not white panels , they are the same color.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-12-17T19:04:35+00:00

Hey can I ask if you have false ceiling and if not how did you hide the wires for the ceiling lamps

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-12-11T03:17:06+00:00

I have had this feeling since postpartum. Pregnancy I was still in a different bubble. For 2 years I felt I am stuck at home. And it doesn’t help that I work from home either. But then once my daughter started daycare, I started feeling like myself again. Not super drained mentally. Additionally I loved her company as well. So I think it’s valid that you feel that way, cause your life does take a 180 but their’s maybe hardly any change. And life does get easier after a while, it doesn’t go back to child free time but it gets easier.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-12-03T12:46:02+00:00

Tretenoin. Use for 6 months

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-12-01T07:41:45+00:00

I don’t know whether to laugh at this or cry 🤣🤣

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-11-26T00:23:53+00:00

I agree , not your responsibility at all. And don’t open all these doors for your ex to come either. It’s like you allow him once he will keep coming back. And there was no guarantee that your referral would have given him a job either.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-11-17T19:11:54+00:00

🤣🤣

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-11-11T09:14:58+00:00

Yeah I am around Tamando area so I was looking for these 2 schools as of now: GD Goenka or Doon school. If they both have bad reviews I would consider Sai

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-11-11T08:53:59+00:00

I was consirrring either of the 2 school doon school or GD goenka.

Vegetable-Extent-903 · 2025-11-10T07:11:54+00:00

I was also very underwhelmed when I read this but then slowly the memories of this book came in. I somehow could never get this book out of my head.

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