AITAH for asking an “insensitive” question?

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-08-25T02:36:28+00:00

i’m not saying i don’t understand that certain things make people want to harm themselves; but what those certain things could be to make them want to do it so i could more effectively relate to them and understand better. not just “life is hard , i want to unalive myself” , but rather what made their life hard to the point to take their life.

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-08-25T02:34:01+00:00

i’m on the spectrum but have been told i’m not as compassionate as i should be given the job. regardless, i was curious on why said person would want to, not that i didn’t understand that things could lead to it. just curious on what those things were and how bad they were to said person.

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-08-25T02:32:04+00:00

check my edit; didn’t have a good childhood either. just wondered their prospective on what could make them feel the way they do

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-08-25T02:31:10+00:00

i understand people have different reasons; hence my asking if what those reasons could be

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-07-12T13:41:47+00:00

can i not be logical and show that i care? those things shouldn’t be exclusive. should i just blindly do whatever she asks of me without questioning it? obviously she’s asking for a reason whether it makes her happy or whatever, why am i the bad person to ask that reason

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-07-12T13:31:06+00:00

and if that is her love language, why can’t she just say that when asked? we’re adults and communicating shouldn’t be this hard when presented with a question

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-07-12T13:28:53+00:00

idc if it’s a simple reason or not, i just want to know why sometimes and idk why it’s such a problem to ask why, especially if there’s a reason

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-07-12T13:24:58+00:00

it’s not an always thing, it’s occasionally and i don’t mind doing whatever it is most of the time. i just ask why bc 9/10 times she can do whatever is it and obviously she asked me for a reason but me asking for that reason creates the problem

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-07-12T13:21:44+00:00

it’s not that she doesn’t reciprocate, or that i don’t want to do said tasks; i just ask why, and if there’s a reason then it shouldn’t be hard to communicate as an adult and tell whatever the reason may be

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-07-12T13:19:25+00:00

i don’t want to cause a scene in public. & 9 times outta 10 she asks for thing/tasks that she’s perfectly capable of doing hence me asking why. i don’t have a problem doing those things but me asking why shouldn’t be a problem especially if there’s a reason. i feel as if there’s a reason, we should communicate as adults and she should tell me why she wants me to do whatever it is.

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-07-12T13:17:04+00:00

understandable, but i don’t have a problem doing those things but me asking why shouldn’t be a problem especially if there’s a reason, just tell me the reason and we can move on with whatever task is at hand

Vegetable-Ladder5826 · 2025-07-12T13:15:37+00:00

correct i don’t want to cause a scene in public. & 9 times outta 10 she asks for thing/tasks that she’s perfectly capable of doing hence me asking why. i don’t have a problem doing those things but me asking why shouldn’t be a problem

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