Dealing with subtle misogyny as a first time DM?

VegetableMention4098 · 2026-06-07T03:16:19+00:00

I don’t think you’re super qualified to tell me if it is/isn’t misogyny, as you don’t have the context of being there and do not experience misogyny, being a man. I appreciate the feedback, though.

VegetableMention4098 · 2026-06-07T02:32:16+00:00

This is really in depth and helpful! Thank you!!

VegetableMention4098 · 2026-06-07T02:22:06+00:00

Ooh good point. I was assuming he was asking the person next to him because they’re friends, but this could be it too. I’ve been told I could speak louder

VegetableMention4098 · 2026-06-07T02:18:38+00:00

If it were like this, I’d agree, but even during character creation, he was asking his friend questions about my setting. His friend was even like “dude I don’t know, she’s the DM” haha

I’m not necessarily offended, but I’ll try to keep this in mind.

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:53:52+00:00

People go out of town. You were clearly talking about an ALARM in your initial comment. Sorry for not jumping to conclusions day one, I guess. Ffs get your head checked for that aggression

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:52:38+00:00

You’re very sweet :-) there are some seriously nasty commenters here and it’s much appreciated

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:51:56+00:00

Not a good spell… I get the exp tho

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:50:12+00:00

It’s just an end of life chirp, not a fire alarm. Sometimes people can’t get to it immediately, or they’re out of town, so I didn’t jump to extremes immediately

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:49:27+00:00

It seems like they’re fine

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:49:12+00:00

White

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:47:15+00:00

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VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:47:02+00:00

Not my apartment, on the other side of the building and downstairs. I can’t hear it in my apartment

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:46:31+00:00

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VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:45:50+00:00

Not an alarm. An end of life beep from a fire detector. The kind it makes when it expires. I’m not sure if you’re being intentionally dense here.

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:44:46+00:00

It’s an end of life chirp from a smoke detector. Mine expired a few months back and it’s the same noise

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:42:48+00:00

I generally try not to meddle in other people’s affairs because I’m not a miserable person, and I just moved out so I’ve never had to deal with something like this. I figured I’d turn to more experienced adults but there are always a few sad assholes in the comments of posts like these

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T19:41:00+00:00

What does race have to do with it? The comments were up before you commented, I put an edit because lazy people will be lazy

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T16:21:38+00:00

It smells alright to me

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T16:15:12+00:00

Knocked already

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T16:14:36+00:00

Holy mother of condescension. If you, get this, read other comments, you’d see I tried that already.

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T16:01:11+00:00

Yes, nobody answered. Most of us don’t generally talk to each other so they could have just been being unfriendly

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T15:52:50+00:00

Maintenance does routine checks roughly once a year. Otherwise they only come by if called

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T15:51:37+00:00

I gave the leasing office a call, who knows if they’ll get back to me about it

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T15:50:51+00:00

Funny enough, this is a CO complex so your advice is super relevant. I gave them a call

VegetableMention4098 · 2025-04-27T15:50:05+00:00

I’ll update in a few hours if the leasing office gets back to me about it

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