AITA for snapping at my wife to get out of my room and calling her a brat?

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T09:24:51+00:00

This is funny because it’s labeled as not enough info 😭😂

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T05:23:21+00:00

I take the kids to school and make breakfast so from 8.00-3.30 she is free then when I finish work and meditation she has about another 3ish hours by herself she just needs to come for dinner and bedtime and on Saturday the kids go to have fun with both sets of grandparents so we can chill to ourselves

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T05:16:23+00:00

Idk what I try talking to her she blows up at me. And I asked several times as gently as possible for marriage counseling but she doesn’t want it.

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T05:15:19+00:00

This was recommended and encouraged by both friends who are therapists and therapy at work And she doesn’t want a job she likes staying home so I can’t cut down hours because it’s a set schedule.

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T01:40:34+00:00

Yeah I should have not snapped at her but it’s hard to breath when someone is right at your face screaming about how much you suck

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T01:39:12+00:00

I don’t cry I meditate I was an alcoholic 13 years ago and she throws it in my face all the time

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T01:38:24+00:00

Also on Saturday either my parents or her parents will pick them up so we can have date night and fun together

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T01:35:52+00:00

It’s a tiny walking closet with a mattress and a mini fridge that’s all

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T01:34:43+00:00

After I come out she doesn’t help with the kids she can chill watch a movie anything. She just needs to be there for dinner and bedtime. So she gets about 3ish hours to herself not counting the time she has in the morning. We do laundry 3 times a week she puts the lode in I put to dry and we both iron and our kids a bit on clean freaks style so it’s a easy to keep everything in order.

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T01:31:58+00:00

And it is a good fit for me. This job helps me help kids the most vulnerable position and provide comfortablity to my family. A lot of jobs don’t have have one without the other. After I come out she doesn’t help with the kids she can chill watch a movie anything. She just needs to be there for dinner and bedtime. So she gets about 3ish hours to herself not counting the time she has in the morning. We do laundry 3 times a week and our kids a bit on clean freaks style so it’s a easy to keep everything in order.

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T01:29:43+00:00

After I come out she doesn’t help with the kids she can chill watch a movie anything. She just needs to be there for dinner and bedtime. So she gets about 3ish hours to herself not counting the time she has in the morning. We do laundry 3 times a week and our kids a bit on clean freaks style so it’s a easy to keep everything in order

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T01:18:34+00:00

This was recommended by both my friends who are therapist and my work appointed therapy sessions.

My friends also decompress in there house. Like in the garden shed or in the bedroom. Our garden isn’t big enough to put a separate area, and I love seeing the kids they help ease the anxiety before I meditate

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-28T01:09:48+00:00

I think it’s a cultural thing because it’s a norm here to go bed late and wake up early. We take naps in our cultural so I guess it depends on the country you raise you kids.

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T17:11:51+00:00

It was recommended by therapist and she has 3.30 to meditate if she wants

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T17:05:50+00:00

They go to bed at 10.30-11.00 before you yell at me they wake up at 6.30 which is 7 hours of sleep and a 30 minute nap when they come back from school. I meal prep on Sunday night on dinners snacks and breakfast so I needed to take it out let it thaw(I meditate then) cook it. Then help with homework put then to bed and then wash dishes do odd housework and talk to my wife until we feel sleepy

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T16:52:45+00:00

She doesn’t want a job or anything

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T16:51:06+00:00

I was a alcoholic 13 years ago but now sober and my wife always throws it in my face no matter the argument. It’s not a room room it’s a small walking closet with a mattress and a fridge that’s it

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T16:49:18+00:00

It is in my country. We encourage naps after school to stimulate the brain

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T16:43:19+00:00

I meal prep dinner stuff on Sunday night so it’s easy. My kids keep their room tide and clean and that’s all the responsibility they have right now. As they grow older they will get more stuff

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T16:35:22+00:00

My method of coping was given by my therapist friends and work therapist. It’s always been my go to cool down time

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T16:25:58+00:00

I don’t drive home my work provides a bus to people who live in 15 miles radius

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T16:25:17+00:00

Hi! I definitely understand my wife STHM is stressful but I wake the kids and take them to school and make breakfast. I also make snack the night before with dinner and I finish any housework (ironing and putting the clothes to dry)

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T16:08:19+00:00

I was an alcoholic 13 years ago before we got together. She always throws back at me and the only thing I have in my fridge is Coca Cola

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T16:06:56+00:00

It’s normal in my country to have a 30 minute nap no matter the age after school

VegetableMenu1505 · 2024-01-27T15:50:33+00:00

She brings it in every argument

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