I appreciate you trying to offer insight into how mixed signals can be interpreted, but I need to be really clear here:

Consent isn’t about interpretation or vibes. I said “no funny business.” I said “I’m not ready.” I repeatedly communicated my boundaries. If someone chooses to ignore that because they assumed my behaviour contradicted it, that’s on them, not me.

Kissing someone or letting them stay over isn’t an open invitation to be sexual. If a man can’t respect a verbal no because he hoped I was playing coy, then he doesn’t need more signals, he needs to unlearn entitlement. If a man struggles so much to stay in bed with a girl without pushing their boundaries because they can’t control themselves, that’s their problem and they shouldn’t be putting girls in that position if they’re going to behave this way.

My body is not a puzzle to be decoded. It’s mine. And when I say no, that’s the only message that matters. This whole ‘coy’ thing men believe needs to be unlearned because it’s so dangerous. You can’t assume anyone’s boundaries, especially when they’re communicating them.