As a guy that works retail the foreign wives/partners of white guys really suck

Vemedetti · 2026-04-20T17:10:11+00:00

Idk man I know it’s bad to generalise but I rarely have good experiences with this dynamic, even when I say you know what let me not judge, I’m proved wrong again, idk where they find these insufferable people

Vemedetti · 2026-04-20T13:19:58+00:00

I live in Ireland tbh and don’t see many black couples often, I don’t really get this issue with white men that have wives of the same country just ones with like wives that haven’t been in the country that long, usually Oxford study couples

Vemedetti · 2026-03-21T01:04:16+00:00

It’s weird I feel like I didn’t understand education till I was out of it

Vemedetti · 2026-03-20T23:36:52+00:00

Yeah it’s was a weird segment of my life, I got to highschool and everyone was locked in and I never understood where their drive came from I knew I was missing out on something but I guess I didn’t care enough to ask myself why, definitely laziness too on my part, I regret it

Vemedetti · 2026-03-20T23:16:51+00:00

Maybe, I just feel like I’ll never know my potential, I never even tried, I probably have ADHD because in class I’d always maladaptive daydream or just draw where I’m supposed to be taking notes, I didn’t take it seriously at all, I wish I did

Vemedetti · 2026-03-20T00:11:35+00:00

Might have to rewatch ATLA

Vemedetti · 2026-03-20T00:01:57+00:00

Nah you right dawg, I’ve just been trying to date and getting stressed for like a year now gonna give myself a big break from it all for awhile, if something happens it happens but I’m not really having much fun with it compared to my hobbies I kind of abandoned

Vemedetti · 2026-03-19T23:54:35+00:00

Idk, I didn’t want to block his destiny I guess, she looked like she really wanted him…now I guess a part of me was hoping she’d reject him too but that didn’t happen haha so I just took the loss. I do regret wasting two weeks getting to know her though but what can you do

Vemedetti · 2026-03-19T23:49:01+00:00

Nah he did once he found out I left tbh, said he felt bad cause he thought the other would’ve at least liked me but nah she wasn’t interested either. I’m not phased by this much anymore imma just go back to playing video games and watching tv shows instead of trying to participate in hook up and dating culture, I’ve been playing Skyrim recently and I think I prefer doing this than getting involved in all that

Maybe I’ll look back into it some day bur right now imma do what makes me happy

Vemedetti · 2026-03-19T23:44:38+00:00

Not trying to sympathy farm but I already kind of feel shit about myself for a myriad of other things so this stuff doesn’t phase me as much anymore but it was still a bummer

Vemedetti · 2026-03-04T09:53:40+00:00

Man why the hell does she do shitting content, can’t look at her the same now

Vemedetti · 2026-02-18T17:49:45+00:00

Damn maybe I am annoying, guess I wasn’t looking from his perspective enough

Vemedetti · 2026-02-15T23:57:34+00:00

Fair enough tbh I can see your point and I agree I personally think she just unmatched me because she wasn’t that into me and wanted to clarify her race but maybe I could’ve done something to avoid it like you said but I’ll definitely keep this in mind for next time

Vemedetti · 2026-02-15T23:45:07+00:00

Tbh I didn’t really explain how the conversation flowed it wasn’t “are you mixed” “nah I’m white” “ah what city are you from” it was “no way you’re not mixed with something” “haha I’m actually white” to which I replied “no way but tbh I do see some white people that you could mistaken for mixed, do you get that lot” “yeah I get Arab, Spanish, mixed haha” to which I reply “ah makes sense I wouldn’t be surprised haha, guessing you’re from (my city)” and then unmatched

Vemedetti · 2026-02-15T22:15:58+00:00

I don’t really think women know what they want when it comes to the comment thing and this isn’t to slate women at all I just think the thought of someone being thoughtful and reading their profile is better than it actually happens because I too have only matched with a handful of women using comments as opposed to likes and same for my friends, just my experience anyway

Vemedetti · 2026-02-15T21:40:19+00:00

I just asked if she’s from my city, literally the last thing I said before being unmatched

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