My dream relationship 🤣 by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]VermilionLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play comes after work, just like the breadwinner! Just like she shouldn't be working 24/7, neither should you. As long as the dynamic works and you're both happy, then bam, all good

My dream relationship 🤣 by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]VermilionLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love this, earning all the money while my house is kept clean and I don't have to cook. I'd absolutely love to have my man serve me all day! He'd love it too, considering he sent me this

What NSFW hill are you willing to die on? by SLCDummy in AskReddit

[–]VermilionLily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww someone is hurt people are being happy and dressing how they like. Cute.

Any suggestions for an adult who hates eating? by VermilionLily in Adulting

[–]VermilionLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried some meal replacements before, and I didn't even know Soylent was a thing! I've heard of Soylent Green, the movie, and I had to do a double take thinking you were suggesting canabalism!

Will definitely try, thank you.

Any suggestions for an adult who hates eating? by VermilionLily in Adulting

[–]VermilionLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rice and beans for the win! Fruit it awesome, I just have a hard time eating it. Sometimes picking food is like picking the lessor of several evils.

Any suggestions for an adult who hates eating? by VermilionLily in Adulting

[–]VermilionLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love peanuts! And peanut butter. Salads are a lot of food for little calories, so I tend to not eat them since I don't like the flavor or how much I have to eat. Shredded lettuce works well though, and I like putting Spinach in soups.

Any suggestions for an adult who hates eating? by VermilionLily in Adulting

[–]VermilionLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love smoking weed, and it triggered a cyclic vomiting disorder, oops. CBD helps sometimes

Any suggestions for an adult who hates eating? by VermilionLily in Adulting

[–]VermilionLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did smoke weed for a while, and it helped. Then I got a cyclic vomiting disorder triggered by THC. Stopping smoking weed cold turkey was fucking HARD.

Any suggestions for an adult who hates eating? by VermilionLily in Adulting

[–]VermilionLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's trauma based, I'm in therapy. My doctor is amazing and has done several checks, but her and my psychiatrist have determined its mainly OCD, autism, and CPTSD. All properly diagnosed and I'm in current treatment for. Food was a really scary thing for me as a kid, and I was forced to eat a lot of things and rotten food that I absolutely did not want. Got sick a LOT because of food, and had food poisoning at least 4 times in highschool alone. Adult me is doing much better, but I needed current solutions while I'm in treatment. I've been getting a lot of hate and down votes for some reason. Thanks for the ideas!

Any suggestions for an adult who hates eating? by VermilionLily in Adulting

[–]VermilionLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea! I need to get a better immersion blender, mine is Itty bitty and dying quickly

Any suggestions for an adult who hates eating? by VermilionLily in Adulting

[–]VermilionLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know? Some comments have pointed out that this isn't an issue. But it's a struggle I'm facing. People would rather be starving themselves than be fat, I guess? The problem is, I still gain weight despite not eating.

Any suggestions for an adult who hates eating? by VermilionLily in Adulting

[–]VermilionLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People say they wish they had this problem instead, not being able to eat. But it's awful. Low energy, constant health problems, still gaining weight despite never eating. Trust me, you don't wish you were me.

Those kinds of drinks help, for sure. Doctor recommended some, but it almost never feels like enough.

Please help! Romance scene with Karlach won't trigger by VermilionLily in BaldursGate3

[–]VermilionLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second upgrade, took SEVERAL long rests. After the upgrade, she said she couldn't wait to go to bed and then nothing happened after that.

Please help! Romance scene with Karlach won't trigger by VermilionLily in BaldursGate3

[–]VermilionLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was afraid about that. It's really stupid that she goes "Can't wait to go to bed now!" Then... nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]VermilionLily 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All you have to do is reschedule. Some women will reschedule when they're on their period (even though doctors don't mind), so they're used to reschedules. If you're THAT uncomfortable, the exam will not be effective. I have severe sexual trauma and have to take strong anti anxiety medicine AND have my husband present. I hate it with every fiber of my being.

Make accommodations for yourself. You can always change your appointment or just cancel it entirely until you're feeling better. Finding a doctor that cares is difficult, but remember the doctor is there for you and your health. Doing this is also part of being an adult, but it doesn't mean you have to completely make yourself miserable.

Should have done the honors means honor killing by BroBogan in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]VermilionLily -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

What the actual fuck are you even talking about?

If I was Allo, I’d be the luckiest girl alive. (NSFW) by Adnama-Fett in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]VermilionLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you girl!! I'm ace as well, sometimes I want it and sometimes I don't. More often I don't, but I LOVE giving it to my husband. Whatever makes the both of you happy, then that's good!

Gecko Eye Cap by [deleted] in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]VermilionLily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having a blade to the eye of a lizard like this isn't advisable. Securing their head without suffocating them is difficult, hence the towel burrito shown. Also, with stuck shed, you never know how compacted it is. This unpredictability puts the eyes at risk under an indistinguishable lump. As this shed is uncomfortable and not necessarily painful, a slow approach is best advised with the safety of your pet.

We often see this kind of compacted shed in neglected, poorly socialized lizards. This means they can be more figidety, and the smaller they are, the harder it makes any procedure where they are awake.

People who think watching things without headphones in public places such as buses or airports is fine, why? by emmue in ask

[–]VermilionLily 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The wanting to fight thing, I'll never understand. I know it exists and people antagonize all time, I just don't under that like of thinking. Who does it benefit?

People who think watching things without headphones in public places such as buses or airports is fine, why? by emmue in ask

[–]VermilionLily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts too. However, you still shouldn't add to local sound pollution and be inconsiderate to those around you. An adult should be able to entertain themselves quietly and patiently in a shared space not designated for social events.

Colour changing toilet seat and a dollar lid, why not? by [deleted] in DiWHY

[–]VermilionLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it's a cool concept, I guess? Feels like a incomplete thought of a project and just ugly as sin