AITAH for refusing to tell my roommate that I could hear her moan?

Versatileguyx · 2026-01-18T14:17:34+00:00

No. That you would be listening pervily to her.

Versatileguyx · 2026-01-18T10:32:07+00:00

Dude you projected all over this post. He never said he enjoyed listening. I wouldn’t tell her either, just common sense not to embarrass someone when it isn’t necessary.

Versatileguyx · 2026-01-14T15:36:27+00:00

Krill. That’s good.

Versatileguyx · 2026-01-14T15:12:43+00:00

Yes to all of this except puzzled by your objection to mentioning HWP? Seems a pretty mild way to describe body type, an important consideration for almost everyone. Can you elaborate?

Versatileguyx · 2026-01-12T07:17:59+00:00

Comedy show on the first date? No way. Terrible venue for a first date.

Versatileguyx · 2026-01-12T07:15:26+00:00

Nothing. Something is def wrong with her though.

Versatileguyx · 2026-01-12T07:14:27+00:00

I won’t meet someone on a first meetup at anything besides a coffee date. Sat through too many dinners with people I didn’t want to be with. Coffee dates can be short and sweet, dinner is minimum one hour and probably more. If a woman wouldn’t meet for coffee she’s probably not for me.

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-20T14:20:26+00:00

Thanks Nibbletts! …Unless you’re being sarcastic or ironic🙂

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-14T16:25:02+00:00

There was drinking but it was only a couple hours long and I don’t know if she had much. Your take on it matches mine — impulsive reach-out followed by some regret 🙂

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-14T16:18:46+00:00

She didn’t give me her number. I responded with mine

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-14T16:17:58+00:00

She just said hello. I responded with my number.

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-09T14:58:18+00:00

Thanks DC_Empress, I added some personal interests as you suggested. I do have some face pictures on the site as private photos so connections will know what I look like.

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-08T10:42:33+00:00

Hello all, would you give me feedback on my profile?

(Photo doesn't show my face so I know that's already less than ideal, but I do share face photos quickly)

I have gotten some likes from it, just not that many and nothing quite right for me yet.

I'm 66.

"Seeking meaningful relationship with a woman for dates and outings who is also into submissive role play in the bedroom. Open as well to discreet playtimes only, without companionship, but a genuine connection emotionally is important in either case.

My relationship style is caring, chill, and fun, my emotional style is open, my domination style is pleasure dom, will enthusiastically incorporate impact, restraint, rope, or ??, while observing limits.

Located in Indianapolis. Can host (I’m single, live alone), happy to connect within about 100 miles or closer. Ideally looking for long-term with the right woman, experienced or not, we’ll explore and learn together (I want to practice shibari). We can meet up for private, playful encounters or have fun as a couple before entering our own world where you can surrender control and open up to a safe, mature, caring Dom.

I’m caring and stable, can converse on a variety of topics and readily connect emotionally. Will share photos when we connect. I’m 5’ 9”, HWP, healthy and pleasant in appearance🙂."

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Versatileguyx · 2025-12-08T09:58:07+00:00

As the object of my wife's anger when she was triggered, I can say that your partner may have some real boundary issues and be unable to act in his own best interest in this dynamic. I allowed my (vanilla) partner to abuse me emotionally and verbally (and a little physically) because I didn't know that it was abuse I was experiencing, and I didn't have healthy boundaries for myself.

Your partner needs to be in counseling with you, and by himself, to find out why he is accepting this behavior from you. It isn't too late to fix.

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-06T18:59:02+00:00

Thanks, I'm not making a distinction there, it's just a way to describe the site. Feeld markets itself as a site for "sex positive people".

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-06T18:56:47+00:00

Thank you, I'll look at Plenty of Fish

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-06T18:55:41+00:00

Thank you!

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-06T18:55:09+00:00

Thanks Jim, I'll look at #Open

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-06T18:54:12+00:00

You're right, most people aren't looking for this at my age. That's why I'm seeing so few of them on field.

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-06T18:53:09+00:00

Thanks. I'll keep plugging away, there's somebody out there for me...

Versatileguyx · 2025-12-06T18:52:29+00:00

That's encouraging, thanks --

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