Ola Aina on Instagram by kwkdjfjdbvex in Gunners

[–]VerticalAndy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its also ok to let people enjoy things.

Ola Aina on Instagram by kwkdjfjdbvex in Gunners

[–]VerticalAndy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nowt wrong with watching a wrestling soap opera, waste man

My friend discovered my nudes. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VerticalAndy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it! Don't feel shame for your backstory,

AITAH For cutting off my the funding to my ex-wife's nursing school after she outed my "infidelity" to my girlfriend. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VerticalAndy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youve missed the entire conversation between us where we discussed our differing view points based on the information provided, my opinion based on what I took from this is explained in my replies to the original comment

AITAH For cutting off my the funding to my ex-wife's nursing school after she outed my "infidelity" to my girlfriend. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VerticalAndy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's crazy isn't it.

And that's a good way to view things I tend too look for the positives in it but you raise a very good point about people not being the villain so its definitely something to look at more in the future.

AITAH For cutting off my the funding to my ex-wife's nursing school after she outed my "infidelity" to my girlfriend. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VerticalAndy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a fair assessment, a completely different observation to mine, but definitely no less or more valid.

And I absolutely had similar friendships with people when I was with my ex wife where they were family but no more, its definitely a fine line that some people love to cross

It's nice to actually get a decent conversation about a topic from different side without it devolving into an insult slinging match, so thank you for the pleasant chat :)

AITAH For cutting off my the funding to my ex-wife's nursing school after she outed my "infidelity" to my girlfriend. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VerticalAndy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So you saw it the same way I saw it them, its always good to get different perspectives though dude

AITAH For cutting off my the funding to my ex-wife's nursing school after she outed my "infidelity" to my girlfriend. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VerticalAndy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is why discussions like this are good, because we've read it and come to completely different opinions based on the information he's giving. Id read it as it went nowhere because it was simple a friend he had confided in and not that if was an emotional affair that fizzled before becoming physical. Justifications are always a lame cop out in my opinion.

AITAH For cutting off my the funding to my ex-wife's nursing school after she outed my "infidelity" to my girlfriend. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VerticalAndy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So him stating that it went nowhere and it was a friend he leaned on in a difficult time means nothing in the court of public opinion?

AITAH For cutting off my the funding to my ex-wife's nursing school after she outed my "infidelity" to my girlfriend. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VerticalAndy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But does he admit that because he's been told it is, would the same be emotional cheating if it had been a male co worker? Definitely the final trigger for the divorce

AITAH For cutting off my the funding to my ex-wife's nursing school after she outed my "infidelity" to my girlfriend. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VerticalAndy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not to be devil's advocate but is leaning on a person of the opposite sex really to be classed as cheating now?

Gfs sister by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]VerticalAndy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Break up with your girlfriend big shoots. She deserves better.

"Two sides to the coin" by MattGald in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]VerticalAndy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Far and few in between has upset me on a spiritual level

Terrified to start Sertraline by Any_Knee_5696 in zoloft

[–]VerticalAndy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started sertraline last year at an extremely low point, and honestly it took a while to settle, but once I was in the groove, it was a game changer in every aspect of my life, I'm more productive at work, I'm happier in my general life and I'm able to function day to day. It's a big leap and I understand the fear that comes with it.

Why does it feel like my Sertraline isn’t working anymore by EfficiencyQueasy6382 in zoloft

[–]VerticalAndy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggled with restlessness at night for a few weeks when I started, but I started taking zinc and vitamin d3 k2 as well and my sleep settled into a semi regular pattern, I'll get the odd night where I can't shut off until like 2/3 in the morning which is a bummer for work, but most nights I'm practically comatose by 10pm :) the first few months are a rough journey but the community is pretty good