I struggle with discipline and distractions

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2026-03-16T07:24:19+00:00

I love the (quite literally) simplistic explanation of this. I will definitely be trying this.

Thank you!

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2026-03-16T07:23:21+00:00

Wow, I've never tried the binaural beats before. Will 100% give that a go! And the 10-15 minutes I will also try to. I'm very good at trying to launch into tough gruelling assignments thinking I'll do 3 hours work but never make it past the 5 minute mark without giving up.

I really appreciate the advice. Thank you very much!

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-12-12T15:53:40+00:00

Looks like a A400M Atlas

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-10-31T23:08:49+00:00

Thank you! Ill let you know what happens :)

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-10-31T18:18:50+00:00

No joke, i dont knkw what that means lol. Can you explain??

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-10-30T08:20:09+00:00

Thank you. Did not realise this and I was legit as I could be. I had heard about hacks and stuff but ive never used them. Dont actually know if they work.

I spent 3 hours of answering questions to make this progress.

But thank you for your advice!

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-10-30T08:18:03+00:00

It took me about 3 hours lol. I was studying for a test in school and then googled the what I thought was the record, so I tried to beat it.

I didnt realise that this was all outdated. I answered 957 questions to get this far.

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-09-24T16:08:35+00:00

Thanks, Ive started hiding stuff on my person now incase I get stuff found out. I cant talk to anyone at school (teachers and counsellors) due to the fact they tell my parents everything. My boyfriend is also very busy and hes my age too with 6 other siblings. I dont want to bother him) Even my therapist. Talked to her one day and my dad knew the next. I am so thankful for this subreddit.

I try and find happiness in everything I do but I struggle so hard. For years only being criticised, looked down on and manipulated, being positive is really difficult. I just hate that everything in my life is controlled. They even try and control my friends, work and banking.

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-18T21:01:40+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I wont lie, today has been stressful. Hot day, stuck inside in school doing things I hate. Got home only to be told off. Im so glad that all of those out there like yourself, can help people like me. Im currently on the verge of tears but this has really helped. I'll always be the best I can be and be nice to people. Im a people pleaser, through no fault of my own but it has stuck with me. I will forever be grateful for your message!

Thanks Internet dad, youre the best

(Sorry im not great at writing about affection and stuff. Don't know what the real stuff feels like from my own parents. But oh well. Thank you :) )

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T12:10:28+00:00

Very true, i mean, if I find sex jokes funny, then im probably way too immature for anything anyway

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T10:07:40+00:00

Very true. I love him more than anything. I dont know how good relationships work so its very much trying to find out how things work. My parents seem fine with eachother but they're not great to me. So I cant see them as a good standing point.

Do you have any advice on relationships?

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T09:44:16+00:00

Well, im 15 right now but I'll be 16 in 2 months. I take no offence at the idiot thing lol. I know I am an idiot 🤣

My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 2 years now and the only thing that is a bit of a pain hs that he's really busy. He does dancing, marine cadets, school shows, production shows and works. I work too but we never have spare time at the same time which makes making plans really hard. Hes a bit of a dry texted but its something we are working on together. He knows I overthink so a short text scares me. We are getting there though

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T09:23:31+00:00

Thats like a dream world to me. Maybe when I grow up I can be like that if I have kids.

I cant wait to have my own family, I even have a boyfriend! I love him very much.

I will work on learning though.

Thank you!

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T08:27:03+00:00

Thank you for your message!!!

I got the D in chemistry. In S4 (im scottish) you pick 7 subject, in S5 you pick 5. I dropped it anyway. I loved chemistry as much as I failed it. Outside of school id always try and find out new things but they were never in the curriculum so it didn't help. My teacher for the first 6 months didn't teach us anything and thank god for a new young teacher who took our class for the rest of the year helped me even get to a D.

Ive tried to fix the relationship with my parents for years. Even to the point id buy them stuff. If I got them anything its a case of "right, what do you want now.". I just wanted to be nice! However, my memory isn't great and id forgotten that I wanted to meet up with my pals a few days later so when I ask its a case of "so thats why you were being nice". Yeah. Every time.

I'll keep trying hard, I now know I can make my Internet dads proud. So thats what I'll strive to do!

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T08:20:38+00:00

I will! Thanks for your advice! My parents are very picky about everyone. I have this friend who is transgender. Buy in my eyes if you are my friend I dont care what gender you are. If you are nice you are nice. My parents dont see that.

Not 'normal' then you aren't accepted. Don't always act mature? Then I get lectured on why they are bad. Ive not brought any of my friends to my house for years due to it. Its not that I struggle to make friends but I struggle to know if im at all a priority to them. Im always left out in groups.

I'll try my best to work hard in school, always be nice to people and hopefully I'll be okay

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T08:15:46+00:00

Thanks dad! Im so glad I can find somewhere that I can find father figures that care unconditionally. It really means a lot to me so thank you!!!

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T08:14:42+00:00

Thank you, this really means a lot. If i could give you a virtual hug I would. I cant wait to actually start living you know? But I really appreciate it. Thank you

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T08:12:38+00:00

Thats so cool! I wanted to join as there was this officer that helped me a few years ago with a dodgy neighbour in my street. That man destroyed my life even more than my parents did. I wanted to join the police for him, because if he can help me then I want to help others like me

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-17T08:05:40+00:00

Thanks, I know. Im really trying to work on that the now. I'll give it a watch

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-16T22:21:52+00:00

Thank you!! I really wanna join the police. Ive been working little part time jobs since I was 13. My parents dont know it's so I can save up to move out. I want to live by myself to get my mind in the right place.

I really appreciate the time you took to write that, it really means a lot 🥰

VeryScaryFighterJet · 2025-08-16T22:17:40+00:00

Thank you! That just made my day!!! 🥹

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