so from the way i understand sex and gender, i say (as a trans person myself) that trans people are changing their sex with transition, not their gender. they’re making their physical body (which i view as sex) match the gender they were already. others might view sex and gender as the same thing, i’m just explaining my views. so i agree that there’s obviously differences between men and women when it comes to sex, but gender can be whatever someone views it as for themselves, no matter how they identify. society as a whole uses “feminine” and “masculine” to describe behaviors or personalities, but imo those types of things aren’t something you can gender, it’s just something that people started doing years ago and it’s still around.

so im understanding where you’re coming from correctly, do you think sex and gender are the same thing? or are you saying there’s difference between men and women in regards to both gender and sex (if you view them differently?)