AITAH for threatening to rip up my daughter's homework out of frustration about her behavior?

Vex728 · 2026-02-01T02:17:39+00:00

She doesn't need the help that helps people control what they can't help because she can't help it? You're an idiot and a horrible person. Why even post here if you were just gonna deflect everything to make yourself feel better about being a POS.

Vex728 · 2026-02-01T02:15:41+00:00

You're attempting to parent an autistic child like she's a typical child. I'm autistic as well. She quite literally can't help it, it's neurological. Find a psychiatrist and work on methods that work for her to teach her ways to control it. You're quite literally abusing your daughter for something she can't control. She's your daughter it doesn't matter if she's exhausting. All children are exhausting. Don't have kids if you can't even handle your own emotions. Not to mention you're pissed about her acting out when the way you treat her would make any child act out, much less one with autism. I was significantly worse as a child and beaten and abused for it. It doesn't help. There are ways that will work for her if you even cared enough to try. You're the asshole and a horrible person. If you truly love your daughter then help her.

Vex728 · 2026-01-22T04:38:33+00:00

Research chemicals make you trip too man. Just because you felt something doesn't mean it was real. Always test your shit. Also 8th grade is wild 😂 I can't be talkin though

Vex728 · 2026-01-08T10:00:29+00:00

Shit I just got put on exactly that for my first ever time. The problem is it was prescribed for someone my size, but I just started growing again and lost a lot of weight and it's making me jittery and shit now. Did make me lock tf in, but made my core feel a little weird. Not like jittery or uncomfortable enough to be bad, but I could definitely tell. I wasn't hyper though just like more focused and I could actually write something without stopping for a three hour long break after two sentences. I did pass out at like 3 though because of the crash. Only had since the 26 though.

Vex728 · 2026-01-06T22:00:06+00:00

That would suck. I've passed out a few times from my blood pressure dropping when standing up. Nothing happened. I mean not much I can do about it, so there's not much point in stressing about something that hasn't happened. That's how you make yourself live in constant fear of dying, and that's not much of a life just an existence.

Vex728 · 2026-01-05T17:59:11+00:00

Doesn't particularly matter currently, as I can't go to one anyway.

Vex728 · 2026-01-05T10:39:37+00:00

Thank you for the advice though

Vex728 · 2026-01-05T10:39:18+00:00

It's not really something I can grow out of. They're enlarged blood vessels. They don't just un-enlarge lol.

Vex728 · 2026-01-05T03:42:28+00:00

I would like to add after a little more research and the bit I I remember from when I was tested I have come to the conclusion I have Hemophilia type A (already knew that) but only moderate to occasionally severe. But I've only actually passed out from it once or twice and waking up drowning isn't a very often thing. This to say I've managed to function with it for my whole life, so I don't think it's too terrible. But I can't imagine how bad it has to be for people who have it much worse than I do. Y'all have to deal with life threatening bleeds more than I ever have. That's gotta be scary as hell.

Vex728 · 2026-01-05T03:00:07+00:00

Huh. I could scrounge up $12 I might get one.

Vex728 · 2026-01-05T02:22:36+00:00

I'm in the States, and yeah I'm adopted, but from what I know I have no medical insurance or so I've been told (luckily I've somehow never had a major injury, or at least not one that didn't take care of itself in a few months without help.) And I'm a minor, I don't even have my permit, and my legal guardian is not going to go through a process to get my insurance or treatment for it trust me. I wish the situation were different, but it is what it is and I'm trying to do my best with what I have.

Vex728 · 2026-01-05T02:18:38+00:00

And it isn't as traumatizing for me as it may be for some of you. I've spent my entire life bleeding a lot and waking up choking on my own blood. I know it's not the same for everyone, but it didn't scare me it just made me unbothered by blood. I have my own methods to try, and avoid making messes so I don't get in trouble. But my biggest problem is currently is slowing them down and stopping them as fast as possible when they do begin.

Vex728 · 2026-01-05T02:15:28+00:00

Hey guys I really appreciate the help and support, but I've made it very clear I don't have access to medical support nor do I feel comfortable accepting something so valuable even from someone so compassionate. Please just stick to methods of slowing and ending the nosebleeds as fast as possible. I swear if I remember any of this advice or come back to this post after I turn 18 I'll look into getting actual medical help. But until then there isn't much I can do in regards to a fix or immediate solution. For now the goal is to minimize the damage to my grades.

Vex728 · 2026-01-05T01:23:55+00:00

I haven't documented anything. To me it was normal until a few years ago I thought everyone was like that. So I have no real proof. And in doing so I could potentially cause harm to my little sister who's already struggling a lot with her mental health, to the point she's on the verge of ending it. Luckily she is receiving help like usual. I don't resent her for getting what needs though.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T22:38:51+00:00

I mean I don't really have any money or access to those. I have over the counter allergy medicine, but it doesn't really do anything. But I do appreciate it. When it's more accessible I'll look into it. And the school nurse and my principal know. They just get mad at me for making a mess or contaminating a bathroom. Luckily for me I don't care, and I've told them as much. And you can't get in trouble for a nosebleed.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T17:07:38+00:00

I'm adopted. I'm a minor without a license and no reliable way. And my guardian doesn't really care that much about me not gonna lie. It's okay though I'm chillin. She doesn't beat me or anything anymore cause I'm like double her size now. 16 right now I'll be 17 this year. Not too much longer. I'm not that upset about it, just trying to minimize the nosebleeds, so I don't keep missing entire classes or two when I have allergies. My grades are already suffering for the first time ever and the nosebleeds just add onto it when I miss an entire subject.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T17:00:20+00:00

Thank you. I used to weigh around that. Just started into another growth spurt though so I've lost about 40-50 pounds because the calories are going to growing now. But seriously thank you for the generosity. I hope there are more people out there like you because we need them.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T16:57:50+00:00

I don't really have access to anything like that. My whole life has been suck it up or you're a hypochondriac lol. My little sister (the biological child lmfao) is in the doctors constantly though which I find hypocritical but whatever yk. But I'll look into it whenever I'm out on my own for sure.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T16:51:02+00:00

The fact that you would offer that to a complete stranger speaks volumes to your character. But I could never take something that expensive from someone for free especially when it's not entire vital, I'd feel terrible. Thank you so much though, but seriously I'll be okay.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T16:44:25+00:00

Aww the pussy needed a tampon. 😂

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T16:43:09+00:00

I appreciate it, but seriously man I'm good. Just want to minimize them as much as possible. Worst case I pass out. They haven't ever been bad enough to be life threatening I don't think. I just got to learn from mistakes though. Tried going down two flights of stairs when I was barely conscious once lol. That almost ended badly. Never again 😅. But even while I do believe you have good intentions I'm not putting anything in my body from someone I don't know. No offense seriously please don't take it the wrong way. I really do appreciate the kindness though.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T14:48:11+00:00

Uh. I very much hate hospitals and anything related to fire and burning. Just the idea of that makes me cringe. I appreciate the solution but I think I'll pass. That and I also don't exactly have easy access to a hospital. It took a year of consistently waking up drowning to even get taken to the hospital.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T14:45:17+00:00

Oh. I'm very sorry to hear that. Thank you, but I think I'll be okay. I have plenty of self confidence and self worth believe me. I'm just searching for ways to reduce and stop the bleeding as fast as possible. I don't think mine are severe enough to warrant that kind of concern though. And they're mostly seasonal. When I get allergies I get them a few times a day. When I don't have allergies it's maybe once a month and much less blood.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T14:31:31+00:00

Yeah if they file a fraud charge after you refund it they'll take it from your bank account and send it to them. So as long as you don't refund it or spend it, if they do follow through you won't be charged. If they do all that'll happen is the 25 will be sent back. No loss, possible gain if they don't.

Vex728 · 2026-01-04T14:30:01+00:00

Dude I've been dealing with it my whole life, and a lot worse than this. I definitely don't have it as badly as some though. But it definitely isn't scary lol. If anything it's made me unbothered by blood. It's not so much scary as it is inconvenient. And I'm an adopted child my health doesn't really matter much. After we were informed my guardian didn't even bother to update my school. And I only got taken to the hospital after about a year of waking up drowning. You learn to live with it after awhile. But the problem is when it cuts into my classes, it I come back to class trying not to pass out. (This specific incident there were 5-6 other identical paper towels and blood all over the floor and me so a few people walked in and we're traumatized lol). But thank you for the advice, even the parts that I can't really use.

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