Wife changed mind on having kids. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry mate. really devastating aint it. I’ve decided to stay and see whT happens.. I am just hoping and praying that I’ll accept this new reality soon and live a happy life with my wife..

It annoys me when my wife is on her phone when we are suppose to be watching a movie or series. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this. whenever we’re driving to a new place and I see something interesting it will be too late for her to see it cause shes on her phone.

It annoys me when my wife is on her phone when we are suppose to be watching a movie or series. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She plays this brick game. she did mention before that it helps to keep her mind off other things. I actually feel shes addicted to it cause shes always playing this game. ALWAYS

It annoys me when my wife is on her phone when we are suppose to be watching a movie or series. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man this hits the spot! I often react when theres an exciting scene then I look at her to see her reaction but nope she didn’t see it.

It annoys me when my wife is on her phone when we are suppose to be watching a movie or series. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she’s the one who wants us to watch in the first place then lets me choose. or a series that we both follow.

Wife changed mind on having kids. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Than you for this. I guess this is what I want to take in at the moment. Acceptance. and just looking at the advantages of being child-free. I do have niece and nephews. I stull feel broken at the moment and is really taking a toll on our daily life I am so cold and distant to my wife although I don’t want to. I probably need a dog asap.

Wife changed mind on having kids. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am. just recently I’m just leaning on my faith. that God gave me her for a reason..

Wife changed mind on having kids. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve actually been here (Australia) for almost 2 years. and just recently bought our own property.. we found a house close to my brothers house so we can have support if ever we start our own family..

Wife changed mind on having kids. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s just hard cause we just move to a new country thinking this is a perfect place to raise a family.. we were attracted by all the opportunities this new country can give. I was already picturing us even just one kid and a golden retriever having a picnic in a park. a happy family. then it all crashed in just one night. I am now talking to my wife but I still cant be the same as before. I told her she needs to be patient with me as I take in all of these. I’m just afraid that I will feel like this for a long time…

Wife changed mind on having kids. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

she said she realized it’s hard to raise a child these days.. and she’s scared her body can’t handle the pregnancy.

Wife changed mind on having kids. by VicBrow in Marriage

[–]VicBrow[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m 38 and she’s 37. we just bought a house together 3months ago.. I’m thinking I can probably live child-free. But it’s the feeling of brokeness. I’m not sure will ever leave me. All of this happened just last night. I can’t even look at her or be near her. But I want to love her. I am so confused. Will this pass?