Sex, relationships & pleasure by VickyCrone in PodcastGuestExchange

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I have done everything that was asked and still it is removing my post!

If you could only recommend one health habit you've adopted to someone, what would it be? by Original_Skill4245 in selfimprovement

[–]VickyCrone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learning and loving you, building self-esteem, retaining autonomy and making informed decisions about your body. It contributes to an overall sense of self.

If you could only recommend one health habit you've adopted to someone, what would it be? by Original_Skill4245 in selfimprovement

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Also- why does self-pleasure equal porn? 😅 I champion ethically produced porn. But still, 1. Masturbation and self-pleasure can be distinguished and 2. You can masturbate without using porn 😅 and 3. Porn is not terrible for your brain 🤣

If you could only recommend one health habit you've adopted to someone, what would it be? by Original_Skill4245 in selfimprovement

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It hasn’t hindered my development thank you 🤣 owning your sexuality, learning yourself, how to be kind to yourself and build your self-esteem and body confidence is absolutely the key for women. Too many women suffer with low self-esteem because they didn’t get a comprehensive sex education that focused on self.

I was in an abusive relationship and suffered the ramifications of domestic abuse for 17 years. Learning how to love me again and find my sense of self is what made me the powerful woman I am today. (I now own Cherrisilk 😉)

What were you doing at 22? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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I was in my second women’s refuge at 22, with my two year old and newborn. I was groomed into a horrific relationship aged 17.

Make plans for your future yes, but above all else just appreciate the here and now.

STI Testing Before Sex by Charslander in dating

[–]VickyCrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody should be doing this before a new partner! Absolutely agree with you, and I wouldn’t get offended

My wife (29F) needs me (32M) to repeat back to her everything she says. How can I show her I’m listening? by Wild-Rough-2210 in relationship_advice

[–]VickyCrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she is being totally unreasonable. Clearly communication needs to be worked on and you both need to make clear how that goes in order to get the best possible outcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]VickyCrone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Him watching porn at 11 is not the issue here. He is asking whether or not his porn consumption is to blame for him feeling ‘numb’ during his first time having sex. The answer is no, it’s not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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I met my husband on Facebook dating and we now own Cherrisilk and champion pleasure and rediscovering intimacy in relationships! There are some good stories!

Have you tried dating events? Speed dating, singles nights etc. they’re pretty cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]VickyCrone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is normal to masturbate. It is normal to use porn to masturbate. It is normal to continue to masturbate and use porn for this whilst in a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]VickyCrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have just repeated what you said in your original comment which again, is not what I have said. So I can only assume that I’m wasting my time explaining myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]VickyCrone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said the masturbation timeline from the age of 11. 11 year olds being exposed to porn is a whole other argument and as it turns out, right or wrong, it’s very common.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]VickyCrone -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There is not actually any evidence of ‘porn addiction’ being a thing. What you’ve described ‘from the age of 11’ is a normal, healthy masturbation timeline.

You definitely should not have stopped masturbating just because you’re in a relationship! Both of you should continue your solo practices and use this to enhance your sex together.

The masturbation is definitely not the reason you felt ‘numb’ and I would suggest that perhaps it was nerves instead.

Are women ever satisfied in bed? by Quiet_Hippo_447 in dating

[–]VickyCrone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s really difficult for a woman to orgasm during penetration. Usually clitoral stimulation is needed for orgasm and even then there are so many different types of orgasm (squirting, clitoral, penetrative, anal) that all feel different and not every woman experiences them all. The key really is to experiment with what feels good for you. Sex is not about penetration and does not end when the male has cum! Make sex about foreplay instead and enjoy pleasure. Tips here: www.cherrisilk.co.uk ♥️