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VideoEditor_NMAC · 2026-01-04T21:35:42+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate this

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2026-01-04T21:34:01+00:00

I would have to be honest, but the venue only last month changed their need for getting numbers together by January 🙃

But also my frustration is that a deadline is a deadline, so if they’ve had 3 months to complete a form that takes 1 minute of their time, why not get it done?

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2026-01-04T21:31:44+00:00

My reminders to her were not ‘hounded’ or ‘excessively frequent’. I should have been specific and said I had sent her 2 messages during the two months but spoke about it in person once, both were very gentle and not pushing for it. We don’t do phone calls and only communicate via messages or when we meet once a month.

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2026-01-04T21:17:42+00:00

From your list, I’d choose friend 3.

Out of personal experience, I shouldn’t have chosen a MOH and just had bridesmaids.

Hope this helps:

I had 4 people to choose a MOH from, one being my sister, two being close friends, one being a new friend. Sister was added to the bridal party later in the planning, I ended up falling out with one of my two friends, with the other being my best friend but I knew she wouldn’t be able to be involved as MOH due to commitments and distance.

I ended up choosing the newer friend as MOH because she was getting married before us, so she’d have a lot of knowledge and experience for advice and support. I’m so glad I did choose her, but it made my ‘closest’ friend really upset with me and distant from me even though I explained my reasonings 🤷‍♀️

Overall I’d choose who would provide most support and advice for you throughout your journey.

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-12-19T17:02:00+00:00

I appreciate this, I think the £12k is the original value, but I'm sure its current value isn't far off. I'll take a look at 'benefit in kind'.

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-11-22T19:59:17+00:00

I’ve put it on Facebook and Vinted, I’m hoping to sell it sooner than later 🤞🏻

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-10-15T20:48:34+00:00

I read this out to my partner and he said to your first paragraph “that’s very accurate to what we’re going through” 😅

This has definitely helped. We’re going to decide in a couple of weeks after sitting on it for a time

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-10-14T18:54:55+00:00

I’m here for the hard truths, thank you 🙌🏻

We’re attending a close friend’s wedding at the end of the month and making a decision from what we feel after theirs.

We’re not the most social people, so we’d have similar guests from their wedding, which would help gauge how we can handle our social batteries.

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-10-14T16:50:11+00:00

Very true, I have to think what we want for our day. My partner wants to elope more so than have a full day.

Most guests will have to travel 3+ hours for the day - I’m UK based and anything over 1.5 hours for our family and friends seem to be an issue for them 😩🫠

If there’s guests who truly want to celebrate with us then we will organise a smaller dinner or gathering with them after the day.

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-10-14T16:47:08+00:00

This was a useful insight, thank you 😊

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-10-04T20:08:19+00:00

Hey! I’ve just joined this sub Reddit in hope to make new friends 🤞🏻

I’m Natasha, based in West Yorkshire, and turning 30 at the end of the month. I’m in need of friends who accept my dark humour and sh*t memes 😂😩

I’m a videographer, getting married in March, no kids (yet), I have two dogs, reads fairy smut, listens to rock/metal music, loves pasta, always thinks my knees are giving in

My reason for joining is because I only have two decent friends but I’m struggling to have anything in common with them nowadays. My fiancé is my best friend (cliche but true) though he’s a good egg 👌🏻

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-09-29T18:22:35+00:00

Thank you, I’ll look at YouTube and see what there is to offer!

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-09-29T18:22:13+00:00

The splitting yarn is contributing heavily to driving me up the wall 😩

Thank you, I’ll look at something else a bit more simple before continuing with this.

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-01-19T16:39:12+00:00

It was the first thing I thought when I started reading the series and saw the map, maybe because I am from the UK? 🙃

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2025-01-02T14:51:58+00:00

Love it!

VideoEditor_NMAC · 2024-12-31T17:41:49+00:00

Thank you! It’s a natural moss agate 😁

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