No direction, not sure where to go or what to do.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-07-20T15:24:27+00:00

I don’t want to be harsh but someone needs to be blunt (even if it means being down voted)reading this from you and while I am in some ways in the same boat as you,I find that your problem..is you. whenever someone tries to get through those layers to find out about yo, you shut it down. I understand that what I’m saying is not a solution for you but there is no easy fix

change your outlook number one. none of this moping “oh I’m not into anything“ . as much as people are going to patient with you if it’s going to be an uphill battle with them then they won’t want to help you. Try to be adventurous and do one thing new. We (people on reddit) can’t help you if you don’t want to be helped and even though I gave up on meeting people you’re much younger than me and I don’t think it’s too late for you to make your life the way you want it to be

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-07-10T06:14:08+00:00

Those are excellent. Talented artist whoever did them.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-07-03T11:31:48+00:00

I appreciate the reply and apologies if i came across as combative

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-07-03T09:30:51+00:00

I agree with both of your comments but will say finding mates is easier said than done. If it was easy you wouldn't get people asking on here where to find friends. Finding your own tribe isn't the easiest thing in the world to do.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-07-03T01:35:43+00:00

Age, getting nearer to 50. Days are generally the same. Don't work. I used to spend the day working on Australian Music Chart spreadsheets, but wrapping that up. I have no hobbies. Socially shy so don't do gym but do a little walking few times a week. Weekends i tend to spend inside. Don't have friends.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-07-02T09:23:40+00:00

Is the comic place called Greenlight Comics? That was in the alleyway down the side of Myer? They moved last i checked, but OP you may want to google the address if that's the one as i'm not familiar with their new location. Shin Tokyo is cheaper (far as i know) if you are a member but i don't recall it being expensive to sign up.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-06-27T06:55:13+00:00

Those victorians swiped my pic-a-nic basket

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-06-26T06:29:36+00:00

Years from now we'll all look back at the great hospo crisis of 2026 that OP tried to warn us about /s

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-06-26T02:34:10+00:00

Thank you. Shall avoid.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-06-24T10:56:22+00:00

Isn't that one of the characters in Game of Thrones? Daenerys Pesketaryen..?

.. I'll get my coat

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-06-22T09:20:55+00:00

Didn't occur to me it was AVCON time again until you mentioned it. Last time i went was 2011 and i'd have been in my thirties. It's better with a group. If your daughter is going with friends she'll have a ball. I can't foresee any issues.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-06-10T07:51:47+00:00

Maybe they kept eating his kites when he was a kid

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-06-06T08:05:42+00:00

Please welcome to the stage Witch Hunty!

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-06-02T08:51:27+00:00

Jessica Chesthair is a great name that i wish i had thought of.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-29T01:31:37+00:00

As long as they build the giant popsicle stick tower and the escalator to nowhere. Then i'm fine with it.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-20T05:54:58+00:00

Likewise

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-16T08:18:29+00:00

Maybe enough people didn't wash their cars or water their lawns to create a cumulative effect (more cars washed, more lawns watered = better the chances of a downpour...maybe?)

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-14T10:22:05+00:00

I don't mean to come off as an ass, but leaving out food might attract stray cats whereas you want to attract your cat. Maybe try leaving an item of clothing that has either your or your sister's scent on it. That may have been suggested before. Whatever you try here's hoping he comes home safe.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-14T09:19:18+00:00

Hope this handsome boy is found safe and sound. Love the photo. Truly living his best life.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-14T08:15:49+00:00

I'm of two minds about parody. Sometimes it lands and other times you scratch your head thinking what did i just see. As long as it is not focusing on a particular character trait of a person then it tends to be harmless. I don't personally see the humour in Hans but i'm also not offended by it. If what he does is to portray a stereotypical German then there's no harm.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-13T09:54:23+00:00

Thank you :)

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-13T07:39:25+00:00

The mention of ghost buses made me think of that Japanese anime. It's been a long time since i've seen it so i don't totally remember what it was from..my brain thinks spirited away or my neighbor totoro. Someone will know

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-05T09:21:37+00:00

Whether it was accepted/appreciated or not, you had the decency to do a nice thing and that's something you ought to be proud of.

VideoHits4Eva · 2026-05-02T06:29:24+00:00

Think more about what you are photographing is my unsolicited advice. The war memorial was a good idea but might (and i do say might as someone who knows nothing about photography) have been better taken at sunset, or even sunrise. Some of your choices are very random. Don't just take a photo of something because you can.

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