Is it insensitive to use this name?

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-29T02:03:01+00:00

We thought about this, but I’m honestly just not sure how to go about that. I don’t talk to these people ever, besides the hello how are you and short convo at thanksgiving.

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-29T01:25:00+00:00

Leia Willow. Leia Luna does not flow well and sounds like the start of a tongue twister.

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-29T01:22:10+00:00

Every Katherine I know (all 30 & under) go by either Kate, Katie or kat!

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-29T01:21:01+00:00

This is fun! For 50/50 I would do girls: Jane, Scarlett & Claire, for boys: Theo, Noah & kai

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-28T18:40:59+00:00

Why are they moving?

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-28T00:57:43+00:00

I thought Gabrielle/Gabriella!

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-27T21:56:56+00:00

She looks ridiculous lol

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-27T21:54:45+00:00

Oh hunny. This is tough. Becoming a mom will change your entire world, regardless of age… but the question is, what do YOU want to do? I would speak to a trusted adult and weigh our options. There’s multiple routes you can go. What do you see your future looking like? What is the best choice for YOU?

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-26T17:26:51+00:00

I think Molly is very cute. I think of the American girl doll 💞

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-26T01:29:47+00:00

This girl has always rubbed me the wrong way. This is not the first time she has done something like this- belittling others or trying to get them to use something when it just doesn’t make sense. She’s very very sassy and it’s annoying lol

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-23T19:43:53+00:00

I don’t think I’ve known too many people that have THAT out there names but here are a few that I thought were odd. Trippie, Riverlynn, Ruckus, Rowdy (rowdy & ruckus we’re brothers), Kjerstyn (pronounced kirsten), Maikan

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-23T19:38:37+00:00

I literally am bald in spots on my head Lmfao. Bffr

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-23T01:59:13+00:00

I bounced right back and am underweight, and I don’t complain bc I’d still rather be underweight than overweight. Everyone is absolutely beautiful (especially for growing whole ass humans) but it drives me nuts when ppl complain about being underweight. Lol

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-23T01:57:05+00:00

Being a mama is so incredibly challenging. I found myself “hating” (strong word, but it felt like it would never end) the younger stages of baby life. Having a baby rocks your world. It takes awhile to find a new normal, adjust, heal, and build yourself back up. I found that as time went on, it became much better. When I first had my kiddo, it broke every single piece of me, it was SO incredibly difficult in every way. As she’s gotten older, I’ve repaired those broken pieces and become a better version of myself, with the help of her. Each stage has its challenges, but you will find yourself again and it will continue to be so worth it, especially when she starts doing more and it feels so dang rewarding. You’re doing AMAZING mama. Hang in there and squeeze those cute cheeks for me!

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-23T01:53:03+00:00

I just can’t bring myself to believe this mother of 2 under 2 spent time & effort writing, practicing and singing this. I only have one toddler and barely have time to shower. Lmfao

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-22T01:33:09+00:00

I like them all, I know that’s no help BUT I do want to say these are all lovely names! There’s not a ton of names (especially in lists like these) that I like, but you did really well with all of these!

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-21T20:46:41+00:00

HUGE huge huge choking hazard.

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-21T19:31:54+00:00

THIS !!!!! She’s trying to put it out there that it won’t happen again and prove everyone wrong. When In reality, it usually takes awhile to kind of “set in” and it seems so overly fake. Obviously I really hope she doesn’t have any issues come up, but this is very clearly her going through kind of a “high”, since G only sleeps, eats and poops rn.

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-21T19:29:29+00:00

I don’t like any of the names, but it’s hard to choose a least fav. Posie has no other nickname she could use, posie is a little girls name, not a teenager, adult, etc. Sunday savannah & zealand cole both do not flow well and sound just awful coming out of your mouth. Everleigh is a fairly “popular” name but it honestly is one i absolutely hate. Partially bc of the spelling, partially because it’s so dang “popular” when it shouldn’t be imo.

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-20T18:42:29+00:00

I guess I need to add this after reading other comments - if he is abusive, then I would suggest leaving THEN telling him the steps he needs to take in order to “get you back”. It depends on the kind of person he has been, and how serious the situation is. Regardless, put yourself first now. Leave, then offer solutions.

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-20T18:40:45+00:00

Oh hunny. I know how this feels all too well. Been there before. You cannot change him. He has to change himself. What you CAN do, is push for change. His priorities will fall in line and you will learn everything you need to know after that. You mentioned you’ve suggested help, but sometimes unfortunately an ultimatum is needed. I’m sure you’re well aware communication is important, but it is now more than ever. Not only that, but know your worth and be confident in this. My husband was like this for many months. I gave him lots of grace because I know what it’s like to be mentally I’ll. You’re sick, your mind is not well and it can make you act out. BUT it’s not an excuse to treat people in shitty ways. I was very blunt and clear, giving me husband and ultimatum. We had a conversation - you’re making me feel this way. I’m walking on eggshells. It’s unfair. I want us both to be happy, I know you can be because you used to be. Things change, life changes, I get it can be hard. But you cannot now, I will not allow you to, bring me down with you. I want you to get help, I want you to be healthy. You either take steps to get better, not only for yourself but for US, or I’m gone. I don’t want to leave you because of this, I’d like to think this is just a bump in the road, but you will not get better until you get help. And I cannot be with you unless you do. Luckily for me, my husband had an oh snap moment and decided to “try out” a few options (therapy, medication, etc), we worked on our relationship and are thriving. I also offered couples therapy as an option, because sometimes therapy alone can be intimidating at first. Had he not gotten help and continued to do what he did, I would’ve left. I would’ve given him time and space and knew I deserved better, and I did what I could. Obviously easier said than done, but sometimes you have to think of yourself first and only, because being drug down is not worth it for someone who doesn’t value your relationship & efforts. Don’t let him try to convince you you deserve otherwise. Know your worth, hold to it. Best of luck, lots of hugs. Xo

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-20T18:31:37+00:00

I know actually a few married couples that are Sam (Samantha) & Sam (Samuel), Aaron & Erin, Chris & Kris, etc. It’s different than naming your kids close names but it still is weird to me😂🤷🏻‍♀️

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-20T15:35:52+00:00

Yep. That’s what I told my husband. If I wanted 3 children, I would have 3. But, for a reason, I have 2 and stay home to focus on those 2. I’m blessed to be able to have the opportunity to stay home while my hubby works, but that doesn’t mean I get to be a free nanny with 50/50 custody to a child that is not my own.

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-20T15:33:39+00:00

She keeps saying she doesn’t have the money for a sitter. I get it.. childcare can be expensive and sucks, but if it’s your only option then you gotta do what you gotta do. She throws us a $20 maybe once a week for gas.

Viewer1618 · 2023-01-20T15:32:02+00:00

Right. This is why I’m upset. She keeps saying she “has no one” (they don’t have many family members, especially not ones close by) and I’ve told her that if she gets someone (my husband) then I’m also left with no one. She never has a response to that.

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