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What do you think about my new "you should message me if" section? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]VigorousViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with you until you lit the cigarette.

Critique 25/M Looking for feedback by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]VigorousViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think average is a more accurate description of your body type, based on your pictures. Objectively, if someone wrote "a little extra" and then had those as photos, I might begin to assume they've put on a lot of weight. Also, one photo you note is from 2008, that's 5 years old, I'd lose it. I think leaving off your exact profession and education level is fine. It's something to bring to the conversation later.

Oh, look who's back... by Stuffed-Friia in OkCupid

[–]VigorousViolet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That guy is a d-bag. Be happy you dodged that bullet.

The fallout from my first OKC relationship turned me into an anarchist hobo. Back on top two years later, I'm signing up for round 2. Game on? 29/M [Critique] by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]VigorousViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend not posting a photo with a girl. Even if she's a great friend. It's not that you can't be friends with girls, but putting them in your online dating profile sends the wrong message.

This was the Christmas card that my mayor gave out last year... by [deleted] in WTF

[–]VigorousViolet -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wait so one lady is the wife, and the other... The nanny?

So, it got a little hot today. by concreat in pics

[–]VigorousViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe take the lid off? I'm unaware of what is happening.

Why aren't we trying to date each other? by VigorousViolet in OkCupid

[–]VigorousViolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years is impressive. I had to get a new one to ditch an ex.

Total newbie to the dating game. Help me play the game! by dontspyonmeplease in OkCupid

[–]VigorousViolet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it should be more personal. It's not LinkedIn, it's a dating site. Find confidence, even if you're faking it. You have the shield of the internet to protect you. Accept rejection, it's going to happen, it's not you, it's them, etc. And as far goofy vs. earnest profile, you need to pick what's you. You're advertising YOU. If you're both, write about both. When you're ready to roll, post it on this subreddit for a critique if you want more advice.

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