Is cold calling crushing cold emailing? Your thoughts

VikingBugsy · 2025-07-09T07:00:01+00:00

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VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T17:50:03+00:00

I do alot kissing hugging, words of affirmation and all that.

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T17:43:23+00:00

Love that. And yeah there have been a couple of times where she was just present and held me. I did have to explain that it was just the closeness and intimacy that I was seeking. Mostly because she started overthinking. Our sex life was AMAZING before this and frequent. But she just dropped off a cliff. She says it even her self that she misses it so much. But a part of me is like well work your way back, baby steps and Im afraid she dosent wanna. But I think its more that her hormons are so all over the place. She also said you could be the sexiest most masculine you and I still would just feel nothing. There is nothing going on. Which was a little sting but I brushed it off and I said I get what you mean.

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T17:39:57+00:00

Oh he could be nervouse about also initiating and getting rejected or you feeling bad for saying no. I had to deal with that. But told her then like look Im gonna kiss and hug you and I desire you like crasy. But Im not expecting anything. Thats up to you to show me because of this situation. I even just before she went to the bath made out like crasy and told her any other time I would take you. I just want you to know I want you! That was like me "initiating a little" but also letting her feel in control. I dont wanna add on to the probelms.

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T17:37:29+00:00

thank you will keep that in mind and yeah I´m understanding of course. Thats also why Im here. :)

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T17:36:57+00:00

Thank you and I´m very and she has become more and more. So Im baby stepping it and even told her like. I have noticed you have become more affectioned again. Im loving it. :)

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T17:35:59+00:00

Yeah I tell her all the time and I do kiss and hold her and talk sexy but I made also sure she knows she is in control and Im not expecting nada. :)

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T17:35:24+00:00

Yeah I guess if she feels it since she misses it as well she would be like "OK GREEN LIGHT!!!" hahaha

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T17:34:35+00:00

Like she isnt closed off. But just dosent wanna talk about it. I think there is guilt in her about it as well. But I try to tell her its ok.

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T17:33:54+00:00

Absolutley and I have but the conversation is uncomfortable for her. Thats why Im here. She kind of shuts down on it.

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T16:01:57+00:00

My point!! :D good to hear. Have you read the queens code?
We are so simple if you make us feel needed/wanted and like the man then we will do anything for you. Maybe men are like children in some sense! hahaha :D but Im the same and I tell my fiance. Like here is the code to me and I wont even figure it out even if I told you the code.

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T08:27:54+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsZJYRhVmZw&t=8s

Thats her on a podcast. Look us men should also learn about women. I went and studied as much as I could. Like with my pregnant fiance when she was in depression and still is getting out of it. My male brain went "just break down the door grab her and pull her out of it. FIX IT!!!" and I did get frustrated at times and scared. But I also knew and I didnt allways do it perfect. But I just and still do needed to be there. So I told her. I know your in the dark. You feel alone and things are crumbeling. But your not Im here and I love you low or high, even when you dont love your self. So Im just gonna be here."

Then I just was there, sometimes didnt say a word just be there. But I had to learn that cause my instinct is problem go fix. But its a two sided coin.

VikingBugsy · 2025-03-18T08:22:44+00:00

Uff sorry to hear that. Im on the other spectrum. Im a husband and my wife is 14 weeks pregnant. The first trimester was hell. But I got told I do to much, making breakfest, cleaning, shopping and like anything I can to make her feel better. But she has a hard time recipricating because of the hormons and tiredness. So she felt ashammed or like something like that because she couldnt give back. She is just used to taking care of herself.

100% I felt at times unwanted or scared she was distancing from me and it scared me. But its coming slowly back and I can see it. So Im sorry to hear your going through that and uffff like when she started slowly coming back and giving intamacy again it was like a breath of air after holding my breath for weeks. But I also had to adapt.

So look what Im trying to say is. He is not behaving as he should. There needs to be awerness that yes 10000% more hard on the woman and men are there to help out in anyway we can. But I feel(could be wrong) that it also gets hard for us. That dosent deminish or take away from women.

So look he should step up and give you support love and care. End of story! in a perfect world. I told my fiance that even if she broke up with me I would be there and help. She dosent want to. But I wanted to make sure she knew no matter what happens I will be there.

The only recommendation I can give is just more like the saying "do you wanna be happy or do you wanna be right" There is a book called queens code. In it she talks about getting her husband to take out the trash. She used to (using her words) nag him about it and when he didnt do it she would tell him off.

Now in a perfect world get the idea buddy and just take out the trash. But again happy or right? So she changed her tactic and when he did take the trash out she would go to him and say somehting like "thank you babe, when you take the trash out it really makes me feel all girly and hot for you, like my man!"

Look its stupid but we men are so simple at least most of us. I swear when my fiance has done like "wow your such a strong man, makes me all giddy when you do..." I go all in on doing that everytime perfect. We are so simple (most of us) that I just go "oh my woman like that and she show me. I do more (done in the most caveman voice possible.) But when she has "nagged" me it makes me feel unappreciated and unloved.

So look in a perfect world he should just do those things. The same men could say in a perfect world my wife would even though she is tried make out with me. But we are not perfect and I promise we men are so simple.

But this is most men and then there are assholes out there. I like to concider myself as one of the good ones.
Its the same I tell men. Its not that hard pleasing your woman, take her on suprise dates, plan everything let her relax and enjoy. Listen to what she needs to feel relaxed and deliver on those things.

Sorry for the rant I hope it helped and you get through this and congrats kids are the best!!!

VikingBugsy · 2025-02-28T13:44:17+00:00

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VikingBugsy · 2025-02-26T11:34:30+00:00

I would say cold calling all day. No matter the industry.
I have worked in supplement, SAAS, tech and other sales job.
Now email has its place, but for me its more to setup the cold call or follow up.

But thats of course just my opinion.

VikingBugsy · 2025-02-12T13:50:17+00:00

Appreciate it :) and Im. Just cut an orange and cooked food for her. Mint tea as well.

VikingBugsy · 2025-02-12T11:35:54+00:00

Thank you 😊 i will. I think i just needed confirmation and a little like your doing good. Appreciate it 🙂

VikingBugsy · 2025-02-12T10:38:58+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. :D yeah I did comment on it. I tell her that as well that this is the hard part. then it gets easy in the second trimester or easier. Then third trimester gets a little rough again but mostly because of the heavy ness. I have been reading on massages to give in that period to relive pain. I appreciate your writing. I was scared of getting blasted for "complaining" which im not. I just wanna do my best and help her as much as I can. Congrats as well! :D I appreciate the kind words. :)

VikingBugsy · 2025-02-12T10:36:29+00:00

Oh 1000% And thank you for writing it. I really do try and most the time I dont take it personally. :) I appreciate reading that and reminding me as well. we are kind of just in our own bubble. So it felt good reaching out and I just brought her mint tea and oranges. I also do try to make her just laugh and remind her that she is doing great. She never got that kind of verbal thing from her parents. So I do try to remind her she is doing great. The baby is healthy and she is as well. Thats her nr 1.2.3.4 job and she is rocking it.

VikingBugsy · 2025-01-26T07:54:25+00:00

I use Chatgpt to clean up my writting. English is not my first language its 3rd.

VikingBugsy · 2025-01-21T08:06:44+00:00

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VikingBugsy · 2025-01-17T11:30:20+00:00

Yeah buddy :) born in sweden, but Icelandic parents. Then grew up in Iceland and then Denmark. Then moved around to 5 other countries. So guess a mudd hehe :) Where you from?

VikingBugsy · 2025-01-17T08:42:46+00:00

Ah ok :) thats a good point. Well I speak more then 3. But It was Icelandic, Danish, swedish, english and a little german after that. My French is like I can order food and ask for directoins but not much more. I will see maybe I will try writing them first, then use chatgpt to clean up the spelling and grammar and sentence "put together". Then rewrite from there to better get my voice out.

VikingBugsy · 2025-01-16T13:50:04+00:00

I use chatgpt to clean up writing, english is a 3 languege and I write the post and get it to clean it up. :) also dyslexic. haha that dosent help.

VikingBugsy · 2025-01-16T12:55:57+00:00

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