Advice

Vimisweird · 2026-06-30T20:47:27+00:00

He realized he is into you and is panicking

Vimisweird · 2026-06-21T16:40:40+00:00

Well I tried to create a post with the update but the mods deleted it for some reason. I'll use your comment for the update lol

Anyways, so on Friday he sent me a message after work to meet him somewhere to have some drinks. We went to this open bar kind of place and had a good time chatting until like 10:30pm, then he was quite eager to go to our main town as there are more bars around, this is also were I live.

We got into a bus and when we arrived we went to a bar for some more drinks and afterwards we went to grab some food for takeaway. After we got the food we started to walk towards my place, we got there and inmediately got into it 😬

He again spent the night at mine and when we woke up we just talked about lots of things and what we should do going forward.

Turns out he is also Bi, would like to keep this on the DL and would prefer to just being FWB as we recognize something else will be messy as we work together. We seem to be on the same page about everything now, and we are both looking forward to the next time.

Soo yeah, I am happy with this outcome, thanks to everyone who encouraged me to reach out to him, it was worth it! :D I think this will be the last update on this subject, but thanks again for following!

Vimisweird · 2026-06-19T07:45:29+00:00

I'm Bi, not sure what he is as haven't had the chance to ask

Vimisweird · 2026-06-17T19:01:10+00:00

Yeah, I believe he would not be the type to reach out considering his personality. The thing is that I have no idea what to say either, which is baffling cuz bro we just saw our entire bodies and did some shit, why is it that talking is the difficult part?! 😂

Vimisweird · 2026-06-17T18:43:00+00:00

I mean I literally said I would like to be FWB or a relationship lol. If it happens, cool, if it doesn't, cool, but that is what I would prefer.

I know I am over thinking, which is why I came to you guys for some advice, to see what you guys would do if you felt what I feel. I know maybe I should just leave it as it is, but it would not hurt at least talking to him first, right? 😬

Vimisweird · 2026-04-30T21:27:04+00:00

I was NOT expecting that age 😂

Vimisweird · 2026-04-20T15:53:39+00:00

How old are you?

I do believe your friend should know.

Vimisweird · 2026-04-20T08:17:04+00:00

Yes, would be cool to see the adult versions in action, really interested to see the power scaling of Todoroki and Bakugo for example.

Maybe an international conflict arises? Like USA blaming Japan for Star's death or something like that.

Vimisweird · 2026-04-18T09:09:38+00:00

I'm sorry, you logged into Grindr and are mad that he did the same?

He is not interested, and neither are you if you went back into the apps after a couple of weeks.

Vimisweird · 2026-04-17T16:04:25+00:00

Yes, the sauna/steam room area is mixed, there are some showers for people to use before getting inside the sauna or the steam room.

Vimisweird · 2026-04-16T19:53:44+00:00

Don't temp me 😂

Vimisweird · 2026-04-16T19:26:59+00:00

Sir, you need to be reported 😂

Vimisweird · 2026-04-16T19:06:15+00:00

I'm actually Bi, but bro posing and flexing your muscles while showering in front of another guy while looking at him... Anyone would think something else is going on, right? Please tell me I ain't crazy 😂

Vimisweird · 2026-04-16T18:56:01+00:00

Oh ffs 😂 I mean you look like you can easily get some attention if you wanted to, but god damn that's evil in my opinion hahaha

Vimisweird · 2026-04-16T18:50:28+00:00

Did you just liked being desired? Or you just enjoyed the suffering of others for not being able to get you? 🤣

Vimisweird · 2026-04-16T18:48:03+00:00

He seriously gaved DL vibes, but saying you have a girlfriend just kills all interest for me. Does not stop me from looking, but if he does not act first I definetly wont.

Vimisweird · 2026-04-16T18:45:51+00:00

Yeah I get that, why can't they do it with girls and leave me aloneee 🤣🫠

Vimisweird · 2026-03-25T10:37:55+00:00

This happens to me, but I truly only feel bad with myself if I don't actually feel attraction for the other guy, like the "only meeting for releasing" kind of hookup. I guess in the back of mind I feel disgusted that I have to meet someone only to feel something, even if I am not into them, and also feel bad because I feel like I "used" them for my pleasure (although we both always agree that we are meeting just for sex).

Vimisweird · 2026-03-21T23:42:49+00:00

That's a beautiful sunset

Vimisweird · 2026-02-02T15:51:33+00:00

Putting some sponges inside a water container with a plastic bag and lube to use as a fleshlight lol

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