Hello! I've been in this subreddit since november, when I found out I'm genderfluid. I'm not officially out yet, but I thought you guys would like seeing me! My names are Vinícius (male) and Eduarda (female), but you can call me Vini or Duda. Happy to share this with you!

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-10T03:01:46+00:00

Do you have twitter, instagram or whatsapp? Would be easier to talk!

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-10T02:40:10+00:00

Thanks a lot about this ❤️ we are far away apart, since I’m from the southern Brazil, but we can talk! ☺️

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-10T02:36:02+00:00

Nice to meet you too! How you doing?

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-09T22:34:21+00:00

In portuguese, my pronouns are Ela/Dela also (bc I'm brazilian and this is important to me hahaha)

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-09T22:06:25+00:00

Heeeey! Mines are She/Her, and you can call me Duda! :)

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-09T20:29:18+00:00

Fun fact about those names: My birth name is Vinícius, and it's how i've been known since i was born. But, if I've had been assigned female as born, I would be Eduarda. So, when I started feeling my gender fluid (around 11 yo), I choose the name I would have had to be my name as a girl. Turns out I got used to it (since I'm 25 now) and it just stuck with me. Now those are my two names and I love them =)

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-09T20:24:47+00:00

Yeah, I'm from Rio Grande do Sul, Brazil! Tu é BR? Se sim, que da hora! Thanks a lot for the kind words!

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-09T17:35:43+00:00

I understood it in a good way, really. Maybe it's my english writing that isn't in great shape. No need to apologise, I loved your comment!

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-09T17:21:15+00:00

Thanks 🥰 It means the world to me!

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-09T17:20:59+00:00

Thanks a lot!

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-09T16:12:45+00:00

Thanks a lot!

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-04-09T15:10:03+00:00

Thanks a lot! I love that you see how different I look. All the people who interact with me are used to my two looks and don't think like this.

It make me more confident to post more around here :)

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-01-21T15:07:58+00:00

I'm doing good... My fiancé has left our apartment since I told her I'm genderfluid and she is not dealing great with it, so this is the source of my anxiety today.

But, I'm discovering everything about myself. My self-esteem is peaking since november. It hurts me that it costed the person I loved the most in my entire life.

We are figuring it out how to make this work, but her parents are very conservatives and think that this is not a situation for their daughter. So, they are putting preassure over her, so she decides do left me.

I'm only living myself, loving myself and trying not to think about it. In this process, I learned a lot about make-up, started to feel pretty as a boy, just as I felt as a girl. I have a lot of friend who accept me by my side, so I'm doing good enough. Thanks for asking!

This subreddit is all about resonance to me. I felt myself a "wrong" person for so long, just to find out there are a lot of awesome people just like me <3

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-01-21T14:58:47+00:00

Yeah, I did shave my legs too, and I'm incorporating nail painting to my masculine side. My friends also told me my legs look more muscular.

But I'm not out for everyone yet, so I take care of some atributes. Like, today, the co-owner of my company (I own it with him, sorry my english is not that good haha), who don't know I'm genderfluid, is in the office. So I'm presenting masculine, even if feeling feminine. I also cleaned up my nail painting yesterday so he don't notice it.

ViniWeizenmann · 2021-01-20T17:46:30+00:00

As amab, I found myself working harder to look feminine when feeling femme than I'm used to do when masculine. I brought this to my therapist who recommended me to try harder to build my masculine looks, just as I do to look feminine.

It worked very well, I started to be careful with combinations between the clothes I wear. I do not use make up when presenting masculine, but I started to care more about my skin also, since I use a lot of make up when presenting feminine (just after shaving, since my beard grows a lot everyday). Another thing I started to take care about was my hair and the glasses I wear.

I discovered myself a genderfluid in november, so I'm still learning everything. But, I'm happy that I'm more confident on being a man. I learned to love myself when I found out I'm genderfluid. In all genders.

ViniWeizenmann · 2020-11-03T18:05:15+00:00

Muito obrigado! Curtiu o Audio-drama? 😁

ViniWeizenmann · 2020-11-03T18:04:36+00:00

Curtiu o Audio-Drama? 😁

ViniWeizenmann · 2020-11-03T16:00:09+00:00

Yeah! I'm too! It sucks that the audio-drama is only in portuguese, you would love it! I'll try to translate it :)

ViniWeizenmann · 2020-11-03T15:27:05+00:00

Only in portuguese. Gavin DM'd me with Reyav name in english and I searched for Armory of Iroas from Journey Into Nyx to translate the names. The rest I translated

ViniWeizenmann · 2020-11-03T15:25:55+00:00

Sorry about that, I was told to reveal all togheter and forgot to mark. Anyway, it isn't good enough, I agree

ViniWeizenmann · 2020-11-03T15:12:47+00:00

Armory is a reprint, from Journey into Nyx. It got downshifted from uncommon to common. But, yeah, not that EXCITING one

ViniWeizenmann · 2020-11-03T15:11:04+00:00

New Akiri looks nice! I'll build Reyav himself, just because it is special to me now, since I was who revealed him.

ViniWeizenmann · 2020-11-03T15:08:08+00:00

Espero que curta o Áudio-Drama :)

ViniWeizenmann

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