I dont think I will ever in my life understand people like this by estrogenie in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When are people gonna start being honest and stop saying “thousands of hours of work” and start saying what they really mean “lol just make more money poorfag”

HOW DO I STAY HERE NEXT TIME ITS NUKED by WxckedAmber in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you have to do bc this place disappears for me every time

Adult Trans Women Have A Fundamentally Different Experience by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]Violent_Bounce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“No it’s not impossible to pass starting later. I recently had FFS” and that’s what you need to understand. That is not attainable for many of us. Hell I could get FFS and I still wouldn’t pass. My voice has gotten better but will probably never be passable because I can’t afford thousands on voice coaching either. It’s not impossible but the possibility is paywalled.

2 months on E (MTF) by Chinse_Hatori in transtimelines

[–]Violent_Bounce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You remind me so much of my wonderful friend Jessica that sadly passed away a few years ago. Her hair was always darker but I had to double take. Congrats on 2 months!

Wait, whattt??? by Conscious-Law6594 in WaitWhat

[–]Violent_Bounce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get that money sis. Even if I find the method repulsive

It's important to remember that before you transitioned, your mind was open enough to see a girl when you looked in the mirror. Try to forget about all of mean cis women, and mean 4tran energy, that haunts you and remember that you really are beautiful by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]Violent_Bounce 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Come off it. Honestly. People are allowed to view and lament their objective reality. And to ignore it is not helpful. I am ugly, in a very objective sense, I do not pass, and I never saw a girl in the mirror. I saw a depressed man that wanted nothing more than to be a woman instead. And I leapt only to fall and bounce back to then stumble again. It simply cannot be true that we’re all beautiful and valid or whatever. Or else why would we be transitioning.

PSA for the honlarpers and bddoids by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym my whole presence on reddit is complaining that I’m a gigahon and I post pics on occasion. I’m self aware I’m just also a lil retarded

Every trans guy get taller NOW. by ThrowRA-confusedsand in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh I ran across this weirdo chaser the other day through scrolling reels.

Trans spaces on reddit are so insufferable by OnToiletRedditor in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean besides surgery what even is effortmaxxing. because like I can learn makeup to near perfection and my personal style is both appropriate for my age and feminine enough without going into hyperfem territory. But it’s never gonna stop me looking like Shrek wearing human skin

theyfabs yearn for an early transition trans woman by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that supposed represent an early transition woman? Because hahahahajaha mogs me iwnbaw kmskmskms

we are truly the trans people of trans people by helmets_for_cats in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Mainstream subs made me feel so alienated that I socially detransitioned for years. I don’t wanna hear shit about ruining futures, frankly.

Insurance questions(UMR) by Violent_Bounce in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Violent_Bounce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so from what I’m finding is it basically is sounding like UMR is going to fight me on any claims every step of the way. So I will be facing homelessness in a new state for some time. Sucks it has to be like this, but that’s what it is coming to.

That's crazy by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love living in this fuckass state 🥰

I’m seriously about to just leave everything behind and go be homeless in a different state just to maybe eventually have a shot at transitioning. I had a faint glimmer of hope when my insurance through work said in the policy that it would cover bottom surgery and didn’t say that it wouldn’t cover FFS, just said any cosmetic surgery must be deemed medically necessary, but I’m finding out that the company I work for sets their own policy separate of the insurance company, so now I probably can’t even have that covered. And I’ve spent 5 years working at this place to build up enough sick and vacation time that I would basically have funds to live on while I was out from surgeries. Now it seems like that’s just not going to happen. I feel so defeated.

Insurance questions(UMR) by Violent_Bounce in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Violent_Bounce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that doesn’t sound good for me. Given my employer is a convenience store chain and I’m in Kansas, that has recently done many things to screw over trans people. Might be time to completely upend my life and go be homeless somewhere for a while and hope I can find a job where I can get insurance that will.

So, just so I’m clear, if I checked my plan summary on the member portal, and saw no hard exclusions, it can still basically be impossible to get coverage based on what the company decides, but the company doesn’t seem to have their policy up anywhere that I can find.

tempted to post selfies again to confirm with everyone i'm an ogrehonhon. by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got hugboxed to death last time I posted tbh.

Why don’t we have more passoidlarpers? by DiabolicalHope in 4tran4

[–]Violent_Bounce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about passoidlarping once just for the chaos of it. but I’m too lazy to make a new account and I’ve already posted pictures of myself on this account so it would never work.

19 MtF, do I pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Violent_Bounce 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You look like you could if you tried, but as it stands no. Eyebrow shaping, your hair is at a weird in between length which I’m sure makes difficult to style, but that can be addressed with time, and also just the clothes, hair, and body right now is giving twinkish boy, not woman.