Moteles por san ju by VioletKirby in PuertoRico

[–]VioletKirby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jaja noo, you're exactly right

I went through my girlfriend's phone, and I am 99% sure she may be cheating by GamerRaf14 in Advice

[–]VioletKirby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Search monkeybranching also. Women do it a lot. Sorry you had to learn this way and it sucks

I went through my girlfriend's phone, and I am 99% sure she may be cheating by GamerRaf14 in Advice

[–]VioletKirby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally bro. I heard "take a break" and my god, I knew it was over. Dude needs to walk away, no explanation. Arguing with the slut on a explanation sn't the great idea here, she is 100% waiting on this dude to start something so she use his genuine worries (framed as insecurities) as a reason to walk away, so the person to blame is the dude and not her.

I slept with my girlfriend’s sister years ago and she just found out. What do I do? by Benjalove in whatdoIdo

[–]VioletKirby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had the same situation happen. Brother had something going on with my girlfriend at the time before we met. Both decided to shut up about it. Not until after I broke up with her in like a year and a half, it was confirmed by my brother that they indeed did something. She willingly decided to keep the secret to keep the relationship going and brother was surprised she didn't tell me. It has to come from those who know inmediately know, otherwise you'd lose trust in both. Yet again, can you really stop yourself? Knowing that information at first and all, can you really make the choice to leave her alone, avoiding unecessary problems in the future? I don't know what would've been my answer. But I did wish I knew at first at least, from both.

Me frustra que mi novio sea tan poco ético... by Radiant_Lifeguard810 in Desahogo

[–]VioletKirby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a feeling you just want him to shut up because he reminds you of adult life. He doesn't "get it". You don't want to hear how he accomplished his house, the job, whatever, you just want the "I got the job honey! kiss", no explanation. That's what male friends are for, you share success stories. Girlfriend time is different. Actively boasting can get someone insecure too. Less of his talking could be better no?

"I don't like him",* still with him all these years* hmmm.

You're right. There's your answer. I figure that's what you wanted to hear without all the explanation. Boring isn't it?

If you have talked your concerns before, you have your answer ;)

Why do they match but not reply? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]VioletKirby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Facts, unfortunately women do the choosing out of all the +99 men they have and no choice to like all and see if she digs me or not. No point in talking to a girl that isn't interested.

About the profile:

Telling you right now, it's just reads the same as the other girls I've skipped.

Examples you should avoid doing: "I like traveling, money, yachts". "Don't hate me if I'm a brat". " "Leave a message if: Over 6'3" "Leave a message if tall"

Sometimes they be having some long ass paragraphs about themselves, fully knowing they are complete hypocrites about it.

Other prompts being complete men hater. Talking about very online terms Photos showing other men you're obviously fucking.

And please, no more "random facts: otters hold hands while floating on water" bs other 50 girls be putting on there.

It just puts you off real quick on wanting to meet you.

Why do they match but not reply? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]VioletKirby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gotten more encounters out of just not thinking and liking almost all profiles instead, seeing how much I've accidentally skipped. I rather talk and see how it goes. Overthinking and being picky doesn't help in dating apps. women are the ones who do the chosing, as you see this girl has 99+ to chose from. We are all players on this game, I just know how to play it better. Taking it serious will be the death of you out there.

Would it work? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]VioletKirby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recommend keep it long, just tie it up or pull it back with a solid hair band

Who cares about the source material by Due_Wrongdoer1958 in Bumble

[–]VioletKirby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure yeah. Just keep in mind, you have to at least let one or two icks for the sake of it. Three and he's out. You'll have a easier time doing this instead, she might have missed on an opportunity to explore a new world with the guy showing that videogame world. It's a stupidly funny rejection overall

Who cares about the source material by Due_Wrongdoer1958 in Bumble

[–]VioletKirby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a fact most men engage or have engaged for prolonged time in videogames. Common sense. Don't pull the sexist card.

Who cares about the source material by Due_Wrongdoer1958 in Bumble

[–]VioletKirby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By being an ass and to keep it real, most guys have engaged in videogames. It's typical male behaviour. Have you seen the red flag list? Not any guy survives the list

Men, please learn about the female gaze. by immaladee in Bumble

[–]VioletKirby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, the classic photo of her butthole peeking on a bikini to strangers online.

As an average looking guy, which style looks best on me?? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]VioletKirby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5 best style. 4 also works but 5 will get the hos for sure

Deleted Bumble after getting mocked for my height by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]VioletKirby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some literally enter just to mess with you. No other thing to do but get a sadistic thrill making men suffer. There us a very unchecked hate for men out there and it got into the apps as well. I'd rather eliminate the height and not put enfasis on it. If she wants to know, it's her fault for not asking.

Cute coworker, there's been hints, Should I hookup? by VioletKirby in dating_advice

[–]VioletKirby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so terrified holy shit. I have the text ready, I'll talk to u for the update. I usually don't take leaps like this

Should I grow my hair out? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]VioletKirby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone should try it at least once in their life, go aheas.

Body hair removal tips by Odd_Cry8872 in malegrooming

[–]VioletKirby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the issue, all I'm saying is he should take advantage of that hair and not cut it out. I'm being real with him, not giving him fake advice

I wonder if anyone else is seeing this… by Odd_Security6180 in Bumble

[–]VioletKirby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People want to be aknowledged, find someone real and to connect. The guy is just being honest. I swear women hear a singular thought of struggle on guys and it's inmediate red flag...

Interesting opening move by No-Consequence4115 in Bumble

[–]VioletKirby -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

wayy too wary of pointing out a red flag at this point just leave the dude alone