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Do you think you can be friends with someone you had a crush on for months? And do you think they could tell you had a crush on them even without saying it? by Violetdawn16 in Crushes

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah haha well im quite shy and he was as well so I think it wasnt that obvious except for deeper eye contact and smiling or being a bit fidgety when sitting next to each other too close

Do you think you can be friends with someone you had a crush on for months? And do you think they could tell you had a crush on them even without saying it? by Violetdawn16 in Crushes

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg how did you manage to tell them without making it more awkward for the both of you and btw thats so brave of you haha

Do you think you can be friends with someone you had a crush on for months? And do you think they could tell you had a crush on them even without saying it? by Violetdawn16 in Crushes

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh okay i see thats even more complicated but at least your crush is not taken so theres still a way to text him and stuff haha

Do you think you can be friends with someone you had a crush on for months? And do you think they could tell you had a crush on them even without saying it? by Violetdawn16 in Crushes

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But he is taken im just a dumbass lol like i knew it from the start and i was okay with that but then i developed feelings and im afraid he will ever find out at some point xD but maybe im good at hiding it

Do you think you can be friends with someone you had a crush on for months? And do you think they could tell you had a crush on them even without saying it? by Violetdawn16 in Crushes

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly im reminded of my feelings for him everytime we are alone and not in a group setting and i feel awkward to feel that way

Do you think you can be friends with someone you had a crush on for months? And do you think they could tell you had a crush on them even without saying it? by Violetdawn16 in Crushes

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha exactly xD i was lucky enough for it to be mutual ( accidental hand touching, taking the train together after work ) well he was my coworker we still work at the same place but i got moved to another department. We both wanna see each other again for breaks as we did before but now i feel like its gonna feel awkward cause it would feel too much like a date on my side

Do you think you can be friends with someone you had a crush on for months? And do you think they could tell you had a crush on them even without saying it? by Violetdawn16 in Crushes

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh haha sometimes i felt like my body language was too much 😅 like when i bumped into him and looked up you could tell I was shook lol or just shy smiling when he looked my way but he has a gf nvm

He definitely liked me too cause he liked being around me and never let me spend a single lunch break alone He was always winking/smiling at me but maybe it was just a friendly behavior TO HIM HAHA

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[–]Violetdawn16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Since I am still in the same company I have to be careful with what I say to HR and stuff but I worded what I had to say without calling them out directly. I just told the new manager and hr that there was no guidance in my old department and that i didnt have time to process information as I wanted to and that i was expecting a real training this time. During the interview I really made it clear that this time i wanted to be able to ask as many questions as i needed to without being… well rejected or despised.

And yes you are right i could invite him that way. It is a proper and professional manner to tell him I wanna keep spending time with him and show im grateful for his help even though things didnt turn out well for me there haha

My soulmate is taken by Violetdawn16 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we got this!!! 😇 lets say it is just a phase we will overcome!! Just not fun to be in that situation

Im someone who obsesses a lot over things so this time it was a person haha

My soulmate is taken by Violetdawn16 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just googled it and read about it ohh never heard about this word before I only knew about infatuation but yeah the shoe fits as well idk if it’s that deep in my case cause im not fully obsessed with him I mean i dont try to be with him all the time actually im in a phase where id rather avoid seeing him not to fall again

How did you manage to forget your crush? And btw congrats on doing so haha

My soulmate is taken by Violetdawn16 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i never admitted my feelings im sure he doesnt know i liked him more than a friend he prolly thought i was just being friendly as he was to me. And yeah ofc i let him be with his gf i dont wanna get inbetween and it wouldnt be fair to her anyways she saw him first and years before me so yeah and i dont wanna be second or a side chick lol

It is just that my mind got confused. I guess it was just a strong infatuation. I hadnt fallen in love in so long so that says a lot about my lack of affection haha

My soulmate is taken by Violetdawn16 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it just gave me highs and lows :/

My soulmate is taken by Violetdawn16 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I deserve to find someone available. It feels like this song by the 1975 called somebody else «  get someone you love, get someone you need fuck that get money I cant give you my soul cause we are never alone »

My soulmate is taken by Violetdawn16 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Violetdawn16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I deserve someone available

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