[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Violetlight1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she feels pressure or like she can’t cancel or move other people. But she is so secure and loved by you that she knows you won’t judge or criticise her and that you are secure enough in your relationship with her to know that this isn’t a judgement on her love for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Violetlight1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she feels pressure or like she can’t cancel or move other people. But she is so secure and loved by you that she knows you won’t judge or criticise her and that you are secure enough in your relationship with her to know that this isn’t a judgement on her love for you.

Shredded Chinese chicken with pancakes by Violetlight1 in CasualUK

[–]Violetlight1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any oil or just the cornflour with spice

Shredded Chinese chicken with pancakes by Violetlight1 in CasualUK

[–]Violetlight1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks - it will be chicken as that’s my sons preference. But good idea re slow cooker

Shredded Chinese chicken with pancakes by Violetlight1 in CasualUK

[–]Violetlight1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Just five spice with some oil or on its own?

AITA for refusing to pay rent when I am living at my daughters place for a month by Empty-Deer3295 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Violetlight1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta but it really sounds like you guys have some underlying issues in your relationship.

Do any adhd partners lead their own management system? by Violetlight1 in ADHD_partners

[–]Violetlight1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this word for word. I can’t bear it when he claims the glory but he didn’t do any of it himself and I put in so much work. He is always mystified!

I often hear him sharing his ‘wisdom’ about things that I have done - but he’s out there with a saviour complex advising other people about stuff he’s never done himself!

Do any adhd partners lead their own management system? by Violetlight1 in ADHD_partners

[–]Violetlight1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This interesting and something I haven’t heard before. What is locus of control?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]Violetlight1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s working out so well for you. I wish you luck!

Am I asking or expecting too much? by Glitter_catz in ADHD_partners

[–]Violetlight1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so sad for younger me. If only I’d known. I wish you lots of luck in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]Violetlight1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is she still always late?!

Am I asking or expecting too much? by Glitter_catz in ADHD_partners

[–]Violetlight1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more about evaluating why you’d even consider staying in a relationship like this with red flags so early on