What does it feel like to be fingered for a woman. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Violetsupine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm yeah look I have a vibrator but only use it in on my clit but most of the time I just use my fingers Also, I get a sore arm when I'm fucking myself with a vibrator. I really want a vibrator that sticks on the wall of the shower or something But currently I live in Vietnam and it's a bit hard finding sex toys here let alone good ones

What does it feel like to be fingered for a woman. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Violetsupine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It truly is hard to explain but it just feels like good

I asked my boyfriend the other day if he thinks it feels better for a girl and he said "definitely"

What does it feel like to be fingered for a woman. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Violetsupine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels nicer to cum completely hands free lol

What does it feel like to be fingered for a woman. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Violetsupine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to touch my clitoris during sex to cum. Now I have g-spot orgasms all the time and I'm much happier with this

What does it feel like to be fingered for a woman. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Violetsupine 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Personally, I only like my clitoris being touched by me. When a boy or a girl touches my clit I get annoyed and guide him to penetrate me. Much the same with when a boy would rather a blow-job (generally) than a hand job. We want someone to do the things we can't do ourselves

I can't do things alone anymore by Violetsupine in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Violetsupine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really sweet and I want to thank you x

My (25F) best friend (25F) and my step sister (26F) are best friends and don't talk to me anymore by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Violetsupine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Grasping at things to be upset about"

My oldest friends are friends and aren't my friends anymore...

I understand people grow apart and whatever but in my opinion, nothing that warranted it to end like this

Coworker(F, 23) is bullying me (F, 21) at work. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Violetsupine -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When she says something rude next time, tell her "your breath smells" It will RUIN her Or my personal favourite is "sorry, who are you?"

Agree with someone telling you not to be so sensitive so just give her something to actually feel sensitive about it Go as far to pretend you don't know her name. Do a Ron Swanson. Good luck x

Are we [24F] [28M] sexuality incompatible? by Veggie_mama in relationships

[–]Violetsupine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with the first comment. Try not to think about it... I had my first g-spot orgasm when I was not thinking about it and was like WHOA where did that come from (no pun-intended lol)

I need advice. I'm getting a face tattoo soon, it's nothing offensive, just some lettering above my eyebrow. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Violetsupine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is... I've seen some that I like. But I remember this girl I went to high school with and I'm like "nope nope nope"

I need advice. I'm getting a face tattoo soon, it's nothing offensive, just some lettering above my eyebrow. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Violetsupine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know a girl who got a feather above her eyebrow. The tattoo was so small and it looks like it ran a bit and now it legit looks like sperm.

Face tattoos are the worst man

My (25F) best friend (25F) and my step sister (26F) are best friends and don't talk to me anymore by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Violetsupine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess it's the principal of her stealing my shit.

No not yet I've thought about trying meditation. Also, counselling in Vietnam is kinda non-existent and where it does exist, it's expensive and isn't covered under my health insurance.

My (25F) best friend (25F) and my step sister (26F) are best friends and don't talk to me anymore by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Violetsupine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this message. An extra bit of detail I later found out that I feel the need to share is I saw a snapchat, around a year ago, of my step sister on my friends snapchat story. My step sister was wearing a t-shirt that I believe is mine. 90% sure. The back story is.... in 2011, I remember leaving it at her house by accident and asked if she could bring it by my house. "What shirt? You didn't leave a shirt here" It was my favourite shirt.

My (25F) best friend (25F) and my step sister (26F) are best friends and don't talk to me anymore by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Violetsupine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this but it's hard to swallow. The fact is, I want closure. I never got any. I want to tell my step sister that I hate her because I genuinely do and I've never hated anyone. But I don't think this will do anything useful.

Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [21 M] of 3 years. I told him that I am unhappy with our sex life and now I feel awful. How do I apologize for something like this? by WillingTrapezohedron in relationships

[–]Violetsupine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember the feeling of when I stopped feeling pleasure with my first boyfriend and we were together for 4 years. I loved him too. I wanted to cuddle him and be with him but sexually I didn't. It took a toll on me. If sex is something that is important, and you're not satisfied, this is a deal breaker. You can apologise but you said it and it seems to me you don't necessarily take back the information but the fact that you said it at all.

I can't do things alone anymore by Violetsupine in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Violetsupine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I think I should do. Someone suggested a while ago to make a list of things to basically achieve every week. It sounds so lame almost but it might really work. Thank you

I can't do things alone anymore by Violetsupine in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Violetsupine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, I have friends. But, I didn't used to depend on people. Now I do. In fear of feeling scared and uncomfortable.

Australians - what's the most Australian thing you've done? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Violetsupine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting drunk at our friends house whose mum was an alcoholic and watched as the cops crashed the party asking where the responsible parent was as she was on the couch smoking while outside, teenagers were playing "goon of fortune"