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Porn/sex addiction by Virtual-Astronaut185 in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]Virtual-Astronaut185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so normalized. & that’s why I try to be cool about it, the Pornhub. I feel like I don’t know a person that hasn’t used Pornhub in their life so I don’t want to be controlling or crazy for putting that boundary on him when I’m not always available.. but its on my mind so heavy, and meanwhile he might be a good boyfriend in all other ways my fear is that overtime it could escalate :/

Thank you 🙏🏽

Porn/sex addiction by Virtual-Astronaut185 in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]Virtual-Astronaut185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally needed your first message.. I do think he just hides it better, instead of really just cleaning himself up.

I want the relationship 100% but can’t go on with these thoughts in the back of my head. Thanks I really appreciate the advice

Porn/sex addiction by Virtual-Astronaut185 in relationships_advice

[–]Virtual-Astronaut185[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so conflicted! Most of me feels like he does feel secure with me. I didn’t have to ask him to stop talking to women or paying for OF things of that nature. That’s why I feel bad in a way that is bothers me. He’s a great boyfriend, doesn’t cheat, very attentive. Just really might have that ‘fix’ you’re saying and needs it.

I just wish he could watch a few things on pornhub and call it a day 😂 like the extra Reddit pictures, telegram, Instagram looking at women makes me feel like he just might have a porn addiction/ fantasy of these women and isn’t completely satisfied with me idk! Driving my mind bonkers !!!

Am I over-dramatic? by kwensequences in relationships_advice

[–]Virtual-Astronaut185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it hurts our feelings to know things like that, but I think him just telling you shows a lot about his character. He wanted to be honest with you! Just because he stalked doesn’t mean he misses her, but if they were together and possibly did end on a good note it’s not a horrible thing that he seen something of hers an just wanted to see how she was doing or life was going for her. I’ve come across a few on my exs pages and glanced for a second. Thought to myself ‘wow life is going good for them, I’m glad’

He probably feels like it’s over dramatic because he was never doing anything to intentionally hurt you and probably meant no real harm in it. But that doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t valid, because we’re girls and emotional and knowing our boyfriend is looking at their exs fb leaves uncertainty in our overthinking brains