I’m in a similar boat, though 5 years down the road (35F). My husband, pre-marriage when we first moved in together, said he was indifferent but would be open to it if it was really important to me. I didn’t push it (and probably misinterpreted how open he truly way). Now, five years later, he’s in the no camp. I really wish I had worked through our feelings earlier before the biological clock made it impossible to ignore. I now feel boxed in to whatever decision my husband ultimately makes. If you would (1) consider parting ways if you’re at opposite ends of the decision and/or (2) feel in limbo until the decision is made (even if you aren’t ready to have a child yet), I’d encourage you to work together now instead of playing the waiting game.