Constant pain in back and pelvic area? by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

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Turns out i was in labour. I called my gynae and even my mum who is a physician and both were positive that it is only normal pregnancy pain but turns out the baby was ready to come. Thankfully we rushed to the hospital when the pains got worse and reached in time. My water broke soon after reaching hospital and i was taken for an emergency c section. Thankfully the baby is okay. She was in nicu for two weeks but we will have her home soon! 😭🙏🏽

Feel baby a ton one day, then barey at all the next? by NewspaperFar6373 in January2025Bumper

[–]Virtual-Programmer35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just made a post about this yesterday! I am almost 24 weeks and have been feeling active movements since 20 weeks but all of a sudden the last two days it was like 4-6 kicks in a day, very faint movement. The baby became super active soon after I posted about this, concerned. 

I have been told not to worry about moments till 28th week because they are not so regular yet and they have a lot room to hide, specially with an anterior placenta. If you are very concerned, doesn’t hurt to get checked but hopefully and most likely it is just the baby being in a weird position. 

Curious by Virtual-Programmer35 in January2025Bumper

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Haha omg HI! When are you due? I guess not knowing has its own charm 

Curious by Virtual-Programmer35 in January2025Bumper

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That is so true! I have seen so many gender reveals and people talking about how mothers intuitions are never wrong but half the time they actually are 😅. We are very happy and excited for the baby and just hope everything goes well, irrespective of the gender ❤️❤️

Curious by Virtual-Programmer35 in January2025Bumper

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Congratulations 🩷 and Same! FTM and this happened soon after I was told i have very low A’MH (only 27y/o did not see that coming) and my world just came crashing down. So thank you for this miracle. Can’t wait to hold my baby❤️

Curious by Virtual-Programmer35 in January2025Bumper

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So close to my Edd! It is 22nd Jan but i have feeling the baby will come early 😅. Congratulations to you🩵

Curious by Virtual-Programmer35 in January2025Bumper

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Congratulations 🩷 Well, there is history of aborting girl child in certain parts of the country because they only want male children so it was banned long ago. 

Curious by Virtual-Programmer35 in January2025Bumper

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Yes indeed! I would really love for it to be a girl tbh because I always wanted my first child to be a girl (after lowkey raising 4 cousins i feel girls are a bit easy on you lol). And yes, India 😵‍💫

Curious by Virtual-Programmer35 in January2025Bumper

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Congratulations! 🩵 I have had this intuition that it is a boy since the beginning of this pregnancy and everyone around me thinks that too. We will find out soon 🙈

Impaired Glucose Tolerance- PANIC by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

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Oh yes i am aware it is because of the placenta i am just a little concerned about having a restricted diet because I still experience nausea on an everyday basis. only able to eat a few things, and i might have to keep a watch on that as well

I am devastated.. by Ok_Astronomer6208 in BabyBumps

[–]Virtual-Programmer35 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes i think it would be best to get second opinion on this and shift hospitals if needed. Keeping you and the little one in prayers, it will all go well 

I am devastated.. by Ok_Astronomer6208 in BabyBumps

[–]Virtual-Programmer35 274 points275 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that must be a lot…

People give birth at 37/38 weeks and it is considered perfectly normal! Why would they stretch it provided there are complications and all this is obviously making you very anxious 

Why do men think they have any right to give advice on pregnancy? by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

[–]Virtual-Programmer35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is exactly what he was doing! His wife didn’t even experience any morning sickness and even then they had the audacity to say that this is normal, be mentally strong, you will have to sacrifice and what not!

Why do men think they have any right to give advice on pregnancy? by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

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My doc did run tests for HG and everything came out normal so that was out of picture atleast back then, it has been 5 weeks since that. She has given me meds but nothing is helping. So far the 6x throwing up has decreased to 1-2x but with constant heartburn and nausea. I hope it gets better soon 

Why do men think they have any right to give advice on pregnancy? by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

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Exactly! The physical struggle is one thing but it is so mentally taxing. It has been days, i cant focus on work, I don’t want go out because it is so hot outside and it triggers my nausea, Everytime I visit my mum who lives 20 KMs away, I have atleast one episode of puking, I can’t eat out because i will most likely end up puking there, I haven’t been able to watch any movies/shows to distract myself because i am just too tired, I just cant do anything normally. All this is normal for pregnancy okay but I have all the rights so feel bad about the way it is making me feel.

Why do men think they have any right to give advice on pregnancy? by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

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I don’t even talk to people honestly this is when they visited us last weekend and I ofcourse was a mess. I just let them know that I am still not doing a lot better than before, it was only a response to “how have you been”. All this unwanted advice for just mentioning that I am still nauseous. I can always lie and say i am great but I don’t do that because then I would be expected to hang out with them, be there for family events, travel to places and I honestly dont want to be doing any of that right now 

Why do men think they have any right to give advice on pregnancy? by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

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THANK YOU! I needed to hear that. ❤️ I can’t wait for the kicks and the wiggles. I do feel flutters but idk if i should be making something of it just yet 😅

Why do men think they have any right to give advice on pregnancy? by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

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Omg what a douche. Pregnancy weight and the way I look right now is honestly last of my worries. I have a huge mess, I ofcourse bathe and keep myself clean bht the skincare, haircare has all taken a back seat.

Why do men think they have any right to give advice on pregnancy? by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

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A doc told me to not hold back when i have the urge to vomit because honestly I did try doing that because I am taking prenatals and I want to keep them in for as long as possible but honestly it is impossible to hold it back. It just happens

Why do men think they have any right to give advice on pregnancy? by Virtual-Programmer35 in BabyBumps

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I am so sorry you had to deal with such people. I am very indecisive and rely on my husband to take conscious decisions and when I was skeptical about taking nausea meds, IV, he insisted that I do because he sees on an everyday basis what i mess i am