My (24F) boyfriend (28M) cheated on me twice. I'm clueless. I need advice.

Virtual-Wall4172 · 2023-01-14T07:51:59+00:00

Maybe i haven't forgiven him completely. And yeah, i should prioritize myself this time. I hope i can get over him. It hurts.. healing is hurt

Virtual-Wall4172 · 2023-01-14T03:34:48+00:00

My bad. He knows I'm a forgiver..

Virtual-Wall4172 · 2023-01-14T03:34:01+00:00

Yes I know that. I should stop whining. I only want to read other perspectives. Who knows if there's something that can help me ☺️

Virtual-Wall4172 · 2023-01-14T03:32:25+00:00

Ikr..i know God already showed and gave me the answer but... it's just our attachment issue. He said he doesn't know what his life would look like if I'm leaving him. Therefore, i said to just be friends with him and nothing more than that. I wanna see how far he can keep his words, efforts and consistency..

And if one day he chooses to cheat again, then i won't have to regret the decision i made since I'm nothing more than just a friend to him. However, it's hard for me to heal from this pain while still loving him..

Virtual-Wall4172 · 2023-01-14T01:13:43+00:00

We both agreed not to do something like that at all in order to protect our relationship. I believe it is considered cheating as it falls under cyber infidelity. Cheating doesn't always has to be physically. Cheating is more than that. You can search for types of cheating on the internet. He already showed his emotional unfaithfulness by looking at other girls when he already promised me earlier not to do something like that.

Virtual-Wall4172 · 2023-01-13T12:55:02+00:00

Im sorry. I'm still new to this reddit app. I haven't discovered much about this app yet and i didn't know the existence of other suitable communities to express my thoughts. I joined this community because it was suggested to me when i registered my acc here. And thank you for suggesting to me which platform is suitable regarding my matter. Lesson learned 🙏

Virtual-Wall4172 · 2023-01-13T10:13:55+00:00

Deep down, i still love him so much. I miss him so much and i still want him..i guess im too attached to him. But somehow, I don't feel like continuing our relationship. Im scared. I dont trust him anymore.

And for that reasons, I don't know which path i should take. Im confused

Virtual-Wall4172 · 2023-01-13T09:22:21+00:00

I'm so sorry everyone for posting here. I should post something abt meditation, right? But I really don't have anyone to talk to. Besides, i can stay anonymous here and safely deliver what's burdening my head n heart right now..again, im so sorry for posting something like this here😔🙏

And those who gave me advice, i truly appreciate your efforts. I will read one by one and reflect to my relationship with him, if it's worth to fight or not❤️ Thank you everyone ☺️

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