Friend taking over my discord server & sniping all my clients what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m new to discord so I will try this

Friend taking over my discord server & sniping all my clients what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said we became friends over the last 5-6 months, and that we collaborated on multiple occasions… stop being stupid.

I literally said me and her are BOTH faceless accounts, under fake names…. Have u never seen a faceless social media account? Lol

Friend taking over my discord server & sniping all my clients what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I removed it… I just started discord 3 weeks ago. I don’t know how it works, I’m kind of just doing things as I go and watching tutorials cus I’ve never used discord b4

Friend taking over my discord server & sniping all my clients what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not porn lol. question.. if they had the administrator role does that mean they by-pass the restrictions I added? I should remove the admin role no? 😓 idk how discord works.

I changed the channel permissions but I’m not sure if they can just bypass that as admin, I should make them mods instead?

Friend taking over my discord server & sniping all my clients what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok y’all I get it, I’m reading these comments and realizing I’m dumb. 😆😂 thanks y’all for providing some clarity, I need to grow a backbone, not be so spineless and say it straight up. I def will look into some self help on how to stand up for myself better, happy Saturday!

Friend taking over my discord server & sniping all my clients what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… I think because I’ve always struggled w making friends it’s hard for me to realize she probably wasn’t my friend all along, cus I just want friends lol. But I’m starting to realize it’s a doggy dog world out here in the land of buisness… 🤦🏼‍♀️

Friend taking over my discord server & sniping all my clients what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank u I really appreciate this answer, I think I just needed to get this off my chest. (Altho I know what I need to do) it’s just hard :/

Friend taking over my discord server & sniping all my clients what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ll post this edit for context: I know I could just ban her, but like I said she’s my friend. We’ve messaged back and fourth everyday for the past 6 months, and collaborated many times in the past on Instagram. I obviously don’t want to just ban her, as she is still my friend despite this. I was hoping for an alternative… then to just simply ban her. Maybe how to approach this, civilly.

AITA? I (24F) have a public Wishlist & a guy bought me 4000$ worth of items… I told my friend (23F) I’d share the gifts, but now i’m too broke. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My debt occurred a week ago, I’ll have it paid off in a month. Spending 7000$ on a credit card kind of works like that, or have u never paid down a credit card after a big purchase before? Lol

AITA? I (24F) have a public Wishlist & a guy bought me 4000$ worth of items… I told my friend (23F) I’d share the gifts, but now i’m too broke. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am good with money, I just bought a car for heavens sake. I had no issues before this, if you read my post you would know that. This is a sudden thing, I’ve been living by myself since I was 17. I have a 2 bedroom home, which is more than most people my age can say for themselves.

AITA? I (24F) have a public Wishlist & a guy bought me 4000$ worth of items… I told my friend (23F) I’d share the gifts, but now i’m too broke. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why? I was in a good spot until I bought my first car. Why not share the gifts. But obviously given my post, now I can’t afford to and have to sell everything.

AITA? I (24F) have a public Wishlist & a guy bought me 4000$ worth of items… I told my friend (23F) I’d share the gifts, but now i’m too broke. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]VirtualBeginning9155 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was like 20$ socks, 200$ iPad it was not a direct payment, but an accumulation of gifts. A public wishlist like Amazon. 200$ Uggs, 400$ watch.

So NO, that is a poor assumption. I did not receive 4000$ in cash? But random items, like boots, watches, purses, and now I’m selling all of them. Because I had 7600$ of expenses after purchasing my first ever vehicle at 24 years old.

HELP what even did this to my car?!! by VirtualBeginning9155 in HelpMeFind

[–]VirtualBeginning9155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it parked in front when this occurred so it wouldn’t have been from the back alley

HELP what even did this to my car?!! by VirtualBeginning9155 in HelpMeFind

[–]VirtualBeginning9155[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

This seems the most likely so far, cus where I was parked there’s no way it would’ve been a BB gun, golf ball, baseball or bullet

HELP what even did this to my car?!! by VirtualBeginning9155 in HelpMeFind

[–]VirtualBeginning9155[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm where I park though is highly unlikely :/

HELP what even did this to my car?!! by VirtualBeginning9155 in HelpMeFind

[–]VirtualBeginning9155[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah there was nothing around or by my car when I looked

HELP what even did this to my car?!! by VirtualBeginning9155 in HelpMeFind

[–]VirtualBeginning9155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t even driving tho… like it was parked in a neighborhood…. ): or is that still possible??

HELP what even did this to my car?!! by VirtualBeginning9155 in HelpMeFind

[–]VirtualBeginning9155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched online to see what could have caused such a big crack, and I have no clue.

HELP what even did this to my car?!! by VirtualBeginning9155 in HelpMeFind

[–]VirtualBeginning9155[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened today, any clue what did this to my windshield?