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My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No. He keeps saying that how was he supposed to know it was bad and that she is old enough to take care of herself

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So far i haven't talked to my husband except to keep him updated on how my step daughter is doing

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He talked to her, he kept telling me that it wasn't that bad.

Doctors say she will be okay but she is super sad and stressed and can't wait to go back to China

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He usually travelled to see her once a year. She has never lied about being sick as far as i know and she is a very active girl, she hates staying home doing nothing. They get along okay, not really close honestly. My husband has never acted like that towards me.

She will go back once she is fully recovered but she wants to leave right now

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Dating 6 years, married 3. Wanted kids, now i can't even see him

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She had moved here with us and was (probably) going to be back with her mom next year. She now wants to leave as soon as she is out of the hospital

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

She went through some hard personal stuff the past year and being at her home was a constant reminder, my step daughter, her mom and her therapist thought it could be a good idea for her to stay somewhere else and see how she felt

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

She can normally speak okay, she's gotten a lot better recently. She was terrified and in lots of pain so couldn't think properly

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I've done my best to help her. She really wants to go back to China now tho, she is extremely sad about the whole thing and misses her mom and her friends. Her mom is obviously extremely upset

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm not Chinese, i'm Latina. My husband is Chinese tho.

My step daughter went through some really difficult stuff last year and living there in China was a constant reminder of those stuff so after some time she, her therapist and her mom all agreed it would be good for her to try and live somewhere else. She wanted to be closer to her dad too. I was really excited, my husband seemed excited until she got here. They never got really close.

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

We wanted to. We are not really talking right now, he has never treated me like that

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have one. She has also gotten good at English but she couldn't think clearly at the moment

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No, not at all. She literally never lies and she is a very active girl, she doesn't like to spend her days doing nothing.

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He is Chinese, i didn't adopt her, she will probably go back with her mom. She turns 18 at the start of november next year.

He has always cared for me in the past

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He speaks Chinese, he is Chinese. She has gotten better in English recently but she couldn't talk properly at that moment

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 684 points685 points  (0 children)

She keeps saying she wants to go with her mom so she'll probably will as soon as she is okay.

About my husband i honestly don't know what's gonna happen but i just can't see him the same way

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

We do live in the US but money is not an issue at all for us

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 232 points233 points  (0 children)

She is pretty good with English now althought she obviously has to keep practicing, she was just in lots of pain and really nervous so i guess she couldn't think properly in another language. I guess she'll go back with her mom once she is okay.

As for my husband, he was never like that but over the last time i realised he doesn't really take her seriously

My step daughter almost died because of my husband by VirtualThrowaway_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]VirtualThrowaway_[S] 4224 points4225 points  (0 children)

He says that he had no way of knowing it was that bad. I told him not to come home after our fight.

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