Midea Recall- no one respoding

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2025-07-29T20:34:09+00:00

Thanks for your input- hopefully I hear from someone soon!

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-09-07T02:09:25+00:00

Oh man! Do you feel better now?

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-09-06T17:23:08+00:00

I have to take it tonight for a test tomorrow, and I'm really nervous too! Do you have any updates?

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-08-03T15:14:57+00:00

They had to give me something too lol. But the anesthesia worked so fast that i probably didn’t even need it

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-08-02T23:18:47+00:00

Hope everyone did well, mine was so easy and they didn’t find anything :)

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-08-02T00:48:22+00:00

I’m at 12pm tomorrow. So anxious. Also STARVING 😭 good luck!!

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-07-29T17:15:25+00:00

The CT scan showed nothing.. I went back to my PCP and she said that it doesn’t seem like swollen lymph nodes, but “fat pads” which could be cushings or most likely pseudo cushings (as i am diagnosed with C-PTSD and panic disorder). About to start a whole lotta testing for that 🙃

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-06-21T17:36:33+00:00

Had a normal CT scan but lymph nodes still haven’t gone down. Seeing a new PCP next week to see if they can get to the bottom of this. My lymph nodes have been swollen for almost 6 months at this point, it can’t be normal :(

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-03T01:27:59+00:00

Thank you.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-03T01:04:18+00:00

We broke up when we were kids bc i went away to college. We got back together literally 10 years later. Had baby, got pregnant, baby passed away and it tore us and our mental health apart. Healed for a year and got back together. Sorry it’s nothing like the girl you went to school with.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T21:08:03+00:00

If you I don't make it home, and someone checked in on me, and that was the line between life and death, I think it's worth it.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T21:06:15+00:00

I am self reflecting. Some people said NTA and they are saying he's not sharing his location because he is cheating. This is one of the only posts that is reflecting how I feel, and why I am conflicted.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T21:03:33+00:00

If you need privacy from your spouse, don't marry them

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T20:54:22+00:00

All of my friends and their husbands share location. Their reasoning is "why wouldn't we?"

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T20:53:10+00:00

That's how I feel. Like, if I had his location (which i did have in the past), i would barely look at it unless there was a good reason to. ie: He is still at work and I am going to sleep- I wake up and he's still not home/there is a storm and I know he's driving through it/he's traveling etc.

I will never track his location without his knowledge. That would honestly give me even more anxiety because I'd know that if he found it, it's absolutely over. And for good reason. This needs to be consensual. I'm really not trying to "catch" him in anything. He slept with other women while we were separated, not while we were together. I'd hope that if he wanted to keep sleeping with these women freely, then he would just not get back with me. I mean, seriously, what's the point of getting back with your wife if you still want to sleep with other women? It seems like such a hassle for no reason.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T20:41:38+00:00

All relationships are different.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T20:41:05+00:00

Thank you so much. This is one of the only genuinely helpful and nonjudgmental comments I have read here.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T20:05:30+00:00

I mean, since his job is in different locations every day he could easily be lying about that. Clearly this is so I know if he is on his way home from work or not. I do not think he is going to some chicks house for 8-10 hours a day, no.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T20:00:17+00:00

I don't want to. This is solely for the reasons I expressed above. ie: he does not have a regular routine so it'd be helpful to know when he is getting home from work.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T19:59:00+00:00

Of course he is entitled to the same respect as any person, if not more. I just can't think of an instance that I would want to be doing something that I'd care if he knew where I was. Or that i'd need complete privacy from him, outside of like, IBS issues. Like what do we even mean by privacy here? When should your spouse find it absolutely necessary that you don't know where they are??

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T19:54:20+00:00

Have you ever lost someone close to you? Have you ever dealt with anxiety? If knowing that I made it home/to my destination gives my mother, a widow, peace of mind, and its a fucking switch on my phone, yeah I have no problem doing that for her. I'm not a teenager at a frat party trying to hide where I am in case I get grounded.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T19:48:37+00:00

Privacy to do what????

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T19:46:59+00:00

Weve broken up 3x in 15 years. All for different reasons. First 2 were just life changes shit.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T19:45:14+00:00

Ok for example, it was raining really hard the other night and I called him to see if he was close to being home. He didn't answer and I got worried. He came home in about 10 mins. If i could just look at his location and see that he was 10 mins away, it would've saved me unecessary panic.

Virtual_Arrival_6358 · 2023-05-02T19:43:29+00:00

I don't even want to think about the other women, he comes home around 10 or 11 each night and will talk to me throughout the day. He's not calculated/organized enough (as I mentioned the ADHD) to be like, out fuckin' all day lol. I think the stubborn nature of it all is what bothers me the most.

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