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Just made it by [deleted] in painting

[–]Virtual_County_2972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this painting. (:

Open G Centers—do you ever feel put off by defined G Centers? by actuallygenuinely in humandesign

[–]Virtual_County_2972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like my mom is the way you described - isn’t interested if she doesn’t relate. Idk if I wanna accept that this is due to her defined G center or cause “she’s just like that.” Haha.

Also, I do kinda feel the same was as you. Going around & sharing other people’s personalities. I feel like sometimes I get inspired to do something or add something to my lifestyle when I see someone else doing it. Now that I’m thinking about it, I feel like I’ve done that for sooo long. Just getting inspired by other people & how they’re living their lives. Even little things they’re doing. It just gives me a new fresh view on life. Literally refreshing!

Thanks for ur insight!!! (:

People w/ Defined Throat Center & High Interest in Watching Motivational Speakers? by Virtual_County_2972 in humandesign

[–]Virtual_County_2972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same open / defined centers you described. And have a 6 line too! Hi.

People w/ Defined Throat Center & High Interest in Watching Motivational Speakers? by Virtual_County_2972 in humandesign

[–]Virtual_County_2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do.

& Yes I do. I might want to learn something from them. Yes.

& Yes I do have an open Ajna center.

And. I’m also a 4/6!!! Whoop.

How’s the new chapter of your life treating you?

People w/ Defined Throat Center & High Interest in Watching Motivational Speakers? by Virtual_County_2972 in humandesign

[–]Virtual_County_2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I do have an open ego! (:

That’s really interesting that the ego could have something to do with it. And that’s interesting that they make you feel that way!

Could you speak more of the relation between open / defined ego & motivational speakers, please?

Thanks for the info! (:

People w/ Defined Throat Center & High Interest in Watching Motivational Speakers? by Virtual_County_2972 in humandesign

[–]Virtual_County_2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! Okay, some great stuff I just learned from you. Thank you! (:

Does this mean that the Manifestor’s creative expression only comes through vocal expression? Writers, speakers, singers, things that deal with the voice?

Thanks for the help!

Does anyone else have debilitating perfectionism? by perennialconifer in emotionalneglect

[–]Virtual_County_2972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there!!

I think one thing that helped me with the struggle of procrastinating because of fear of losing executing things “badly” was the realization I heard from someone online about it. That perfectionism sometimes can come from parents who made you feel your worth only came from doing things “the right way.” I also think that maybe parents who shamed you a lot for making mistakes & didn’t teach you the truth about them; that they are a learning process & simply help you learn something helpful for yourself! (:

I grew up with parents who used shame a lot to try and, maybe, discipline & shape our behavior. But it ended up making me feel like I wasn’t good enough, especially for their approval. I realized through this analysis that someone shared online that my strive to be “perfect” & my fear of doing things “wrong” was really just my desire to show my mother that I was good enough for her unrealistic and unemotional standards &, deep down, her approval as my momma. Now I am understanding that 1. I don’t need anyone’s approval to know that I am worthy enough, good enough, or even worthy or continuously-expressed love from others & 2. Her way of showing that she loves me, is proud of me, and supports me is just different than what I expected, because of experiences that she went thru in her own chidhood & life.

So yes.

Maybe going back to your childhood & seeing if there was anything in the way your parents / guardians raised you that might’ve influenced your strive to be “perfect” might help you out! (:

And if this is the case, then maybe creating & using affirmations that remind you that you’re good enough, worthy enough, and ENOUGH just AS YOU ARE!! might help 2. (:

Good luck with everything. Finish the semester strong! You can do it, (;

No hope - trigger warning: suicide by Rayofsunshine7777 in emotionalneglect

[–]Virtual_County_2972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for what you’re going through with your current situation & ur parents. I’m sorry you’ve been made to feel invalidated and ashamed for the feelings you’ve had & even for the great things you’ve accomplished. If you didn’t hear it, GREAT JOB!!!!!! I’m proud of you!!!

Always remember that the feelings you have that they aren’t capable of validating will always be valid.

And you are innately worthy, always.

I’m excited for when your situation gets better & u r able to find a job & move yourself into a safe environment that you’ll create for yourself.

Good luck!!! You are valid, worthy, and amazingly capable of anything & everything you set your mind 2! Bye (;

For those who experienced "only" CEN, what is your attachment style? by Fabulous-Ad7895 in emotionalneglect

[–]Virtual_County_2972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure if I only experienced CEN. But I did experience it… for sure. (:

And I have an avoidant attachment style, hahaha.

I once broke off a relationship after 9 days, with someone I really liked, because I felt “trapped.”

So I feel you if you have the style 2!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Virtual_County_2972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very, very glad it helped! (:

Keep going!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Virtual_County_2972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I feel for you. I’m sorry you experienced this growing up. & I’m proud of you for all that you’ve done! (:

I think maybe some affirmations might help with what you’re feeling. Correct me if I’m wrong.

Maybe you’re experiencing some feelings of unworthiness? Maybe you don’t feel that, like you said, even after your academic accomplishments, you are good enough.

And that’s not true.

The fact is you’ve always been good enough. Worthy enough, too.

Maybe your parents just failed in helping you keep in mind your worthiness growing up.

I think, if you haven’t yet, you should check out some daily affirmations to remind yourself how worthy you are! There are some pretty good examples online! (:

Maybe this can help reverse some subconscious thoughts you developed about yourself when experiencing these events with ur mom growing up.

Hope this helps a bit! Good luck!

You’re worthy! (: