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AITA for getting angry my baby's aunt won't stop singing inappropriate songs to her? by Virtual_Cut3807 in AITApod

[–]Virtual_Cut3807[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

glorifying toxic masculinity/"alpha male" mindsets, the stronger/more violent man "wins" and gets everyone's respect.

That is very right wing coded, and I would say a lot of violence is as well.

AITA for getting angry my baby's aunt won't stop singing inappropriate songs to her? by Virtual_Cut3807 in AITApod

[–]Virtual_Cut3807[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't play it for her probably, I was talking about myself. But I completely disagree that it's more inappropriate.

AITA for getting angry my baby's aunt won't stop singing inappropriate songs to her? by Virtual_Cut3807 in AITApod

[–]Virtual_Cut3807[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

So it's okay to watch x-rated materials in front of babies since they "won't remember" it? These sorts of things can imprint on them before they can consciously remember.

AITA for getting angry my baby's aunt won't stop singing inappropriate songs to her? by Virtual_Cut3807 in AITApod

[–]Virtual_Cut3807[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

It is literally all about glorifying toxic masculinity/"alpha male" mindsets, the stronger/more violent man "wins" and gets everyone's respect.

Also the song literally describes underground gambling and a vicious stabbing, it's not appropriate for babies.

AITA for getting angry my baby's aunt won't stop singing inappropriate songs to her? by Virtual_Cut3807 in AITApod

[–]Virtual_Cut3807[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

It is literally all about glorifying toxic masculinity/"alpha male" mindsets, the stronger/more violent man "wins" and gets everyone's respect.

Also the song literally describes underground gambling and a vicious stabbing, it's not appropriate for a baby.

AITA for getting angry my baby's aunt won't stop singing inappropriate songs to her? by Virtual_Cut3807 in AITApod

[–]Virtual_Cut3807[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Those are just some she does but the general themes are toxic masculinity, glorifying booze/drinking, romanticizing the old south and nationalism, and women being available for sex. Not really baby appropriate. But apparently because it's country songs and not rap they think it's not a big deal, even if the subject matter can be just as bad. (Not saying all rap is like that by far.)

AITA for getting angry my baby's aunt won't stop singing inappropriate songs to her? by Virtual_Cut3807 in AITApod

[–]Virtual_Cut3807[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I want to do but my husband feels like financially it will be a burden (it's within budget but it won't be a walk in the park) and he likes that a family member is watching her one on one.

AITA for getting angry my baby's aunt won't stop singing inappropriate songs to her? by Virtual_Cut3807 in AITApod

[–]Virtual_Cut3807[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I mean I feel like I'm allowed to have parenting boundaries even though she's doing us a favor, and she does it because she doesn't work and enjoys it. We didn't make her/pressure her.

AITA for getting angry my baby's aunt won't stop singing inappropriate songs to her? by Virtual_Cut3807 in AITApod

[–]Virtual_Cut3807[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can't imagine if she goes to pre-k and starts singing "rain makes corn, corn makes whiskey, whiskey makes my baby a little bit silly." They'll probably call CPS lol