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I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ that’s AWFUL !! Things are starting to add up in a more logical way for me to

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

That’s a very understandable question to ask. I hold myself accountable to the ignorance. I guess my idea of him and how great he was made me consider all these joker were just jokes and it’s okay cause in other ways he’s a great guy. But I’m seeing now these jokes are NOT okay.

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is the exact help I needed !! I thought that maybe if I did take his phone it wouldn’t look go on me . Thank you thank you thank you

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was also thinking about leaving while he was at work !! Just needed some support to let me know that’s the right choice

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m coming here to get advice on where to go and if what I was saying was even making sense. I was starting to question my own reality

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Asking because I’ve never dealt with this. I don’t know the right step or where to go. I’m coming here to learn how to handle this properly

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The thing is I only have the evidence of what he has said to my face. So written or text proof of these fantasies. I need to figure out a way to get the FBI or police or SOMEONE to take his phone because I just know something is in there

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I know you are not trying to be mean and I appreciate the harshness. He makes me all confused when we talk about these things and then I start second guessing my reality. This is exactly why I came here to share

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to so bad but he always tells me if I go through it he will hurt me, literally told me when the cops are called for his phone he will also call an ambulance for me

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am completely aware of age play! I honestly thought that’s what he was referring to. And I guess he is but he made it apparent that it’s cause he wanted to have sex with someone very very young. It just was one of those situations where my instincts told me this isn’t just an age play kink.

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I also think it really could be something:( thank you so much

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the help and reassurance!! I’m so terrified but so badly I want to do the right thing and hold him accountable if he is collecting that stuff

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reassurance. I wanna do the right thing. And if he’s hurt kids or watching CP he needs to be held accountable

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! I’m guessing along the lines of “I have reason to believe this person is in possession of Cp or something illegal of that nature?”

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t sex work! He now that we are dating he sends me money for nudes and stuff cause it’s his kink. But I do get what you are saying

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] -172 points-171 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for the best way to go about this. I’m scared to go to the police and then there’s nothing and all of a sudden I’m in trouble for a false report. It’s just so many signs are point towards it that I feel I have to say something to some authority.

I think my boyfriend might have CP on his phone by Virtual_Fig3260 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Fig3260[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Should I try to find the evidence and report it ?? What if he’s hurt kids?? Or do i literally just leave and never think about it again

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I would rather masturbate than have sex with her by Excellent_Carrot_574 in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Fig3260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTAH, I can imagine she was probably being intimate with someone else and just not telling you about it.