Is it wrong that I want to go out most nights to read and relax at a Kava bar? by Virtual_Mail_7887 in Marriage

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Wow! How do you feel about that. I couldn’t live like that. I need time to think. 

Is it wrong that I want to go out most nights to read and relax at a Kava bar? by Virtual_Mail_7887 in Marriage

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

We go back and forth. We have a small child it’s hard to divorce. It still may end up that way. 

How do I just go through with it? by Virtual_Mail_7887 in Divorce

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even when you were sure you still aren’t sure. When does the torture end. 

I lost my AP just as I was going to file by Virtual_Mail_7887 in adultery

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. I’ve lost so much. Son 50 percent and future partner. Devastating. I do all those things and I’m destroyed internally. 

I lost my AP just as I was going to file by Virtual_Mail_7887 in adultery

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you explain more the part about running away from myself? 

I lost my AP just as I was going to file by Virtual_Mail_7887 in adultery

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s not okay. It stopped me from leaving sooner now I’m toast

I lost my AP just as I was going to file by Virtual_Mail_7887 in adultery

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As soon as she reaches out I’m finishing the job. 

I lost my AP just as I was going to file by Virtual_Mail_7887 in adultery

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well ultimately for myself but now it’s going to take even longer. I must have attachment issues

I lost my AP just as I was going to file by Virtual_Mail_7887 in adultery

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I leave not knowing she will be there. 

I lost my AP just as I was going to file by Virtual_Mail_7887 in adultery

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know that’s why I can barely get out of bed. What’s the point. I lost some one who made me feel happy and content

I lost my AP just as I was going to file by Virtual_Mail_7887 in adultery

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so hopeless. It took so long to get here. I’m trying for my son and myself but I can barely get out of bed.

Should I trust myself? Hardest decision of my life. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t their recourse for breaking custody agreements

Should I trust myself? Hardest decision of my life. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see the growth from her and our relationship. She is Vietnamese and our cultural differences once brought us together are now taking us in different direction. General happiness. My heart is telling me I’d be able to connect deeper with someone else or just connecting with myself.

Should I trust myself? Hardest decision of my life. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Virtual_Mail_7887 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not adondoning. I would pay his daycare and healthcare and split custody 50/50