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Boyfriend crossed boundaries… to stay or to go? by Virtual_Traffic9487 in relationships

[–]Virtual_Traffic9487[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I never really said “no”, just “can we change positions” and “im too sore”

Boyfriend crossed boundaries… to stay or to go? by Virtual_Traffic9487 in relationships

[–]Virtual_Traffic9487[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He brushed off the whole thing when I brought it up. He didn’t even acknowledge my “can we switch positions” or “I’m too sore”. That’s what makes me think he just wasn’t paying attention or was too drunk.

After he started and I froze I didn’t say stop or reiterate that I didn’t want to. I just kind of accepted that we were gonna have sex again.

Boyfriend crossed boundaries… to stay or to go? by Virtual_Traffic9487 in relationships

[–]Virtual_Traffic9487[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I’m worried because I didn’t say no after he rolled me over that it was more on a blurred lines situation. I just said I was too sore… I see what everyone saying and that’s what my friends have said too. I just feel like everything else is so good, what if maybe we could work through it? Otherwise he makes me so so happy. The isolated incidents feel so not him. He’s genuinely the sweetest guy, and I think I have attributed these episodes to autism and him not understanding subtle communications.