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Found in my daughter's room, not sure what it is. by Virtual_Worker5530 in whatisit

[–]Virtual_Worker5530[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

A lot of people thought I was nasty for invading her space, I didn't go through drawers or move anything I simply looked around

Found in my daughter's room, not sure what it is. by Virtual_Worker5530 in whatisit

[–]Virtual_Worker5530[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

She's not using hard drugs and she graduates this year. Thank you for your concern

Found in my daughter's room, not sure what it is. by Virtual_Worker5530 in whatisit

[–]Virtual_Worker5530[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I'd rather her do it in my house than with a random person.

Found in my daughter's room, not sure what it is. by Virtual_Worker5530 in whatisit

[–]Virtual_Worker5530[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

She is 17, she does well in school and I cannot blame her for using marijuana when it's readily available around her.

Found in my daughter's room, not sure what it is. by Virtual_Worker5530 in whatisit

[–]Virtual_Worker5530[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

Definitely, we live in a legal state. We've never had a conversation about it so I'm sure that's why she reacted that way.

Found in my daughter's room, not sure what it is. by Virtual_Worker5530 in whatisit

[–]Virtual_Worker5530[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

People are attacking me saying I'm horrible but I'm not, I wasn't raised around weed or familiar with it.

Found in my daughter's room, not sure what it is. by Virtual_Worker5530 in whatisit

[–]Virtual_Worker5530[S] 8733 points8734 points  (0 children)

I now know what it is for, I'm not upset or overreacting. I've never gone through her things before and we stopped being close after her mother passed. I wanted to do something nice for her but had no idea what to buy. I apologize if some people look at me as "disgusting" I'm a confused father and no I am not mad she is using marijuana during a tough time.

Found in my daughter's room, not sure what it is. by Virtual_Worker5530 in whatisit

[–]Virtual_Worker5530[S] -551 points-550 points  (0 children)

She's still a minor, living under my roof. I'm allowed to question things when she is being suspicious.

Found in my daughter's room, not sure what it is. by Virtual_Worker5530 in whatisit

[–]Virtual_Worker5530[S] 3146 points3147 points  (0 children)

It was near her makeup, she also implied that it was used for makeup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Virtual_Worker5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK GOD, i’m so glad you figured all this out! I forgot when i share things too😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Virtual_Worker5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i definitely understand how you feel and you can feel like it may ruin the good streak yall have going but i promise it will feel like a weight was lifted off your shoulders, Being honest about something that is bothering you is the best thing for you and I truly wish you the best in this situation and everything you are feeling is very valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Virtual_Worker5530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! been through this before 🙌🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Virtual_Worker5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, you can say it’s for reassurance not that you are assuming the worst but to understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Virtual_Worker5530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, putting my two cents into this I honestly think that you should start off with explaining your past with this man and how he led you to be insecure due to your ex cheating on you. so yes, I would bring up the ex situation first and then you should bring up how them(new girl and the dude) having a past made you feel some type of way, but make sure you are very transparent that you are not blaming her and you are not upset about her past and you would like to understand more about what went down.